Is it weird to want to marry my girlfriend who's in her 50's?

[Anonymous]

[Lliam]

No.
I got married when I was 42. My wife was 39. Neither of us had ever been married before.
I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. But in my mid-30s, I started looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with.
My wife and I have been happily married now for over 29 years, had a LOT of fun, and built a wonderful life together.

[egan3141]

It's never weird to marry, no matter how old you become. However, if you are truly in your lower 30s and she is thus 20+ years older than you, any romantic relationship with her is weird. 20 years is the difference between my mom and I...

[capriVib]

Yeah, it’s weird. You can't have kids if you marry a 50-year-old woman anyway, so what's the point of the marriage? It makes more sense for her to just stay as a girlfriend.

[Nikki1989]

So you need to have kids to be in a relationship with someone?

Now that is weird!

[capriVib]

It’s not needed, but he says he'll get married. What is the goal of getting married, Professor?

[Asker]

I don't want kids anyway.

[Nikki1989]

Not weird at all. What is peculiar is when people think it is weird. They are the true oddballs.

[Staximus]

When you're 55 and she's 75 you're going to have second thoughts. Don't do it unless you can see yourself being an old lady's caretaker.

[Asker]

I can see myself being her caretaker.

[Staximus]

Don't marry a woman old enough to be your mother.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, does she bake you cookies?😆 it might be beneficial.

[NathanDavis]

I don't think so

[In_Trance]

Whatever works for you