I'm in love with and wanna marry a woman who's 12 years older than me, is that unusual?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

Who cares , if you are in love with her , don’t give 2 shits about what other people think or say about it , it’s your life and your choice on what you want to do , no one else can make that decision for you , you are both adults that love each other , that’s all that matters , Fuck what other people think or say about it , they have no clue what they are talking about if they are trying to rain on your parade. I date older and younger girls’ cuz I don’t give a fuck what other people think or say about it , she is what’s important to me , other people aren’t. So do what makes you happy.

[Anonymous]

Assuming you're an adult, 12 years is not a major age difference but make sure you understand her aspirations and goals as she may have more defined and mature goals in mind and a fixed timescale to achieve them.
And bearing that in mind, is it really you she loves or the role and resources that you enable.
But of course you may not understand what I mean by that yet. Hopefully you won't ever need to.

[Asker]

Neither of us want kids and we just want to get married, I'm 25 and she's 37.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Wishing you a happy future then :-)

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the sweet song of love, ignoring the tick-tock of the clock! 😍 Age is just a number, especially when you're vibing on the same wavelength. If she's stealing your heart and you two are clicking, why not? Love doesn't have to fit into society’s neat little boxes. Beyond the age, focus on understanding and compatibility. Let the love fireworks begin, my friend! 🎇

[slatyb]

Yes, but so what? You are both adults, and no one else gets a vote.

[Darklydarkened]

I'm 33, but I'd not say no to a 47 year old Katheryn Winnick

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's unusual.

[Asker]

We've been dating for 4 years and have really hit it off.

[Anonymous]

Unusual for the woman.