Would you marry a woman who is 9 years older than you?

[Anonymous]

I see a lot of couples including my parents who are 9-10 years apart and some friends who are also similar amount of years apart.

HOWEVER
in these couples, the man is the one who is that much older, not the woman.
I do know 2 couples whom the woman is the oldest and in these 2 separatistien relationships, there’s always someone saying that the man MUsT be cheating on her with a younger woman.
why is this the case?

so it brings me to ask the question

would you honestly marry a woman who is this 7, 8 or 10 years older than you?

and not to later cheat on with a younger woman?

please answer honestly.

[jhl_x]

Honestly, as someone who's nearing 27, finding people around my age or someone who's older won't be that different. Maybe it's more likely to find women around that age with children or baggage from past relationships, but it's already a dealbreaker for me no matter the age, so I see no issue if these problems aren't there.

[Anonymous]

For what it’s worth, I’m 11 years, 6 months, and 15 days older than my husband. It’s definitely a different dynamic than it would be with an equivalently older man, not necessarily better or worse, but different. We’ve been together over a decade, have children together, and have a good, not perfect, but a good life together

[Greergr]

I would, I'm 19 (ignore my age thing, I lied on it, lmao), Sarah Paulson is 28 years older than me, and I would. 7-10 is nothing in my eyes. Also, I wouldn't cheat on someone younger or older. No point in being in a monogamous and serious relationship to only cheat.

[RedStealthOperative]

Honestly, I would. As long as I was attracted to her emotionally, mentally and physically, age wouldn't really be a factor there. Especially if she's a sweetheart, I really wouldn't care other than how she treats me, and how are lives practically mesh together in all areas.

[Avicenna]

I very much doubt I would do that unless she were in really good shape/had no health problems and was planning on working until she was in her 70s. It makes no sense to have her retired from working and me still working (something I plan to do until at least my 70s). She'd also have to have a good financial situation.

[Ironic_Method]

I went out with a woman 14 years older than me once upon a time and it was amazing. I ended up having to move which was a deal-breaker, but we're still good friends. Highly recommended.

[Guy13]

If she is Rich, known bad health, as well as her Sisters and Mom dying before 61-62. THEN YES...

[Guy13]

Not really but I'm just saying...

[IJhonnyI]

Could be a long story but I'm going too keep it short yes I would

[Rockstarrrrr]

Unlikely but if that's possible she has to look waaay younger than her age because women already age faster, so...

[Bluethinker456]

As to marry, most likely not, if it's a casual relationship, then maybe, but not sure.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nope. It would just be a weird dynamic. I would always be looking to her as a big sister. And she would never respect me.

[MysteriousDarkness]

My girlfriend is 12 years 8 mo ths 4 days older than me

[Guardian45]

Sure! Why wouldn't I? I dated a woman who was 6 years older than me

[Anonymous]

No I only want a women 19-22

[Kaneki05]

Of course.

[UniquelyBasic]

Most likely not

[jamesgoldman]

Absolutely

[CloudMassacre]

I would consider it

[jasco]

Sure why not

[BLP11520]

Yes I would

[NeffexSelfMade]

no lol