Why is my husband still trying so hard to hold our marriage together? Why is he not willing to let go?

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I already told him I don’t love him anymore and I am seeing other men.

V_Injector · Accepted Answer

Gee I dunno... maybe, just maybe some people take vows seriously still?

This right here, is just one of the many reasons many men are starting to re-think the value of marriage. Because she can just change her mind, and then walk away with all the cash and prizes.

But I'm not judging you or your situation. For all I know he knocked your front teeth in, cheated on you, and gambled all your money away. But the fact that no-fault divorce is in the cards and family courts have a sway towards a certain gender are some good reasons to re-think the idea of marriage.

Bottom line though, you took vows, and now you don't honor them. Is what it is, I guess.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Do you remember the vows you said to each other when you got married? Maybe he is trying to live up to the promise he made to you then, while you seem to forget (or don't care) about the promise you made to him.

AvaRay · Accepted Answer

Your husband deserves better woman than u who can't be faithful to the marriage vow u both hv, make marriage like a joke.

Even everything u try to do to divorce him, he still keep, respect n do his promise to u, to family in front of God that he make when he marry u, but u don't even give shit to that.

If u can't living your commitment maybe u shouldn't be in one. Shame on u.

If I m a man I ll never want to hv wife like u, such disgrace n what u do is so disrespectful.

Your husband is too good to hv cheap woman like u.

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

Then why did you get married in the first place? Let me guess you must be a boring catholic. All catholic woman love exchaged men as if they were underwear. Rediculos. This is why I can't stand CATHOLICS. Yet people mae fun of christian why because we are faithful.

katiesmuff · Answer

Just the fact that you have decided to start fucking someone else before ending your current marriage says a lot about you! You are the perfect example of what a true SLUT is. God knows he would be much better off discarding you as quickly as possible.

dustybiker2 · Answer

... why are you waiting for him to do something he doesn't want to? If being unfaithful dragging him along is cruel. Go file papers yourself. I have to say a lot of your questions sound like you are a male in a pink account.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Are you actively seeking a divorce then, because you can admit adultery and be free in a very short time. Is there more to this you haven't told us?

strateguy632 · Answer

like jen said he feels love for you and he wanted to keep his commitment. you should keep your commitment to marriage too.

DrPepper12 · Answer

WOW! THAT ESCALATED QUICKLY! He's hurt and shocked. We hold on to the known when the unknown is terrifying. Give him time to process but caution him to be an adult about this no matter how much it hurts. People and situations change.

Anonymous · Answer

because your lives are very tied up and intertwined in each other. it will be hard and a hassle to unravel it all, so he's trying to keep it together in order to save it and having to struggle to purge you from his life

Mr_twoface · Answer

Cause being lonely is more hurtful than holding on to someone and being able to talk/share time together.

Amur8711 · Answer

He is following his trying to keep what he promised to you and everyone who attended your wedding. A movie I recommend to watch is Fireproof.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Because he put his name on the marriage contract and clearly wants to honor it.

handsomelad70 · Answer

He may take your wedding vows seriously enough that he wants to mend the marriage at nearly all costs. (Some religions, such as Roman Catholicism, frown upon or even disallow divorce.)

Surely · Answer

Some people don’t like change. How long were you two together?

Jkgordon · Answer

Basically he is stupid to stay in a marriage with someone who doesn’t love him

sheikalana · Answer

He thinks he can make you stay and is willing to do whatever to make you change your mind.

DrewJohnson · Answer

Divorce is a huge pain financially and otherwise. Just keep fucking around. He'll either divorce you or he won't.

Anonymous · Answer

Then divorce him. Seriously. I actually feel sorry for him. Men like him deserve better than you.

thisAppIsGarbage · Answer

Because it is very expensive to get divorced. Tell him he can keep all of his shit and you'd be divorced half a second later you evil cunt.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

he is giving you an attention but you want more. He want sex probably but the new guy is the same. no one can give you the attention that you want. you just offer them sex that's all.

Anonymous · Answer

You are another example of why 80% of divorces are filed by women. Your husband took the wedding vows seriously, you didn't.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Wow. You are classless.

LazerBean · Answer

I guess he's just not quite as trashy as you

Jennz6 · Answer

Probably he loves 💕 you

leahzrc · Answer

My question, Why did you get married?

laly520 · Answer

could be he still has feelings for u

Booklover_90 · Answer

Perhaps he think there’s a chance.

Cheerguy · Answer

He has feelings for you still

eagle1951 · Answer

hard for some to let go

Abdulwahh · Answer

Did he do anything to lose you?

Bluegreen3737 · Answer

He loves you

moneymagnet24 · Answer

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