What’s the point of a guy wanting to date a girl he says isn’t attractive? He claims he doesn’t care about looks, but what’s the point of telling her?

[Anonymous]

She never asked him was attractive or not

[DishLady]

That's just mean. Some folks call this "negging" -- to make you feel like less so he gets easier access to you and you feel like he's doing you a favor. It's a type of gaslighting. If a guy tells you you're not attractive, say "ok" and walk away.

[Asker]

I did and he got mad

[DishLady]

That’s his problem. He’s rude. You shouldn’t allow it.

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's not the best move but it might be the case that he is trying to say the other qualities she has are so appealing that they eclipse any perceived shortcomings.

Like, she's so kind and sweet that it doesn't matter if she may not look the best, her kindness makes her more than worthy (as an example).

[live2dance25]

There may be more than meets the eye. Personality, compatibility, chemistry. Who knows?

[Asker]

No chemistry by the way

[live2dance25]

Maybe there’s something else, financial gain? Social status?

[Asker]

None

[Mariogirl09]

He could be bullshitting. Because thats a very mean thing to do/say

[slatyb]

There's no point, it's borderline abusive. She should dump him immediately.

[Anonymous]

Negging