If you could give the opposite sex one super power to better understand your side of the fence, what would it be?

[Anonymous]

Personally I would give women the ability to automatically know if a guy is decent or a legitimate threat to them or not.

Mind you this is not contingent on anything else (guys looks, age, etc.). It also doesn’t mean the guy might not still get romantically rejected. But still if women had the ability to quickly deduce if the guy is safe or not would lead to a much better world.

This would help both genders. It would make well meaning guys more comfortable and confident when it comes to approaching women without the fair of being unfairly labeled “creepy”.

Also this would obviously help women be more safe. But it would give bitchy women zero excuse to be disrespectful to men who didn’t do anything wrong.

[Anonymous]

The ability to recognize a truly loyal partner.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO

[Bricealan]

Not a bad idea!

[Chazmatazz269]

Being a “threat” has absolutely nothing to do with being labeled “creepy” by women. It’s 100% about being attractive. A good looking man can say and do anything he wants to any straight woman he wants and it’s “cute” or “charming”. When an ugly man has the same confidence he’s “creepy”. That’s the only difference.
Also, less than 1% of men are a legitimate threat to women. That’s a statistical fact. Treating 80% of men like sh*t is a choice, and that “threat” nonsense is just an excuse. There have been two prominent cases in recent history in which women responded adamantly in favor of truly dangerous men, literally violent criminals. As long as he’s hot, none give two sh*ts about whether or not he’ll r*pe and kill them.
If you want to help men and women get along, take away their ability to lie and deceive. Two simple questions at the beginning of every date with guaranteed honest responses would take almost all of the game out of dating.

[BobbieBoy666]

To understand the handicap just because somebody was born disabled doesn't mean their handicap, I'm not single because I want to be.

While the terms "disabled" and "handicapped" are often used interchangeably, many people distinguish between the two based on the nature and origin of the condition [1].
In common usage and some professional contexts:
Disabled (or impairment) often refers to a physical or mental condition or functional limitation within the individual. This can be congenital (present at birth) or acquired later in life through injury or illness [1].
Handicap is frequently used to describe the disadvantages or barriers imposed on an individual by society or the environment, as a result of their impairment [1].
Therefore, as your statement suggests, a person might be born with a disability, but their resulting handicap is often a consequence of the surrounding environment not being designed to accommodate their specific needs, rather than the condition itself [1]. This distinction emphasizes that the challenge lies not just in the individual's condition, but in the lack of accessibility and inclusion in society.

In modern terminology, particularly within the Social Model of Disability, there is a critical distinction between being born with a disability and being "handicapped".
Disability refers to a functional limitation or a difference in how a person’s body or mind works compared to the majority of the population. It is often a permanent, lifelong condition.
Handicap is a disadvantage that occurs when a person's environment or societal attitudes prevent them from fulfilling a normal life role.

Why a Disability Is Not Always a Handicap
A person born with a disability is only "handicapped" when they encounter barriers that prevent them from participating fully in society.
Environmental Factors: A person who uses a wheelchair has a disability, but they are only handicapped if a building lacks ramps or elevators. If the environment is fully accessible, the handicap is removed.
Accommodations and Support: A person with a visual impairment may have a disability, but with tools like Braille or screen readers, they may not be handicapped in their education or career.
Attitudinal Barriers: Often, it is the negative attitudes or low expectations of others that create a handicap, rather than the disability itself.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I haven't talked for long with women being oblivious about my "side of the fence" as you put it, so in practice I have seen women understanding me, which is more important to me than whatever side there would be to look at.

In fact, since we're talking about super powers, I would give parents super powers, to automatically understand how to raise kids the healthy way, how and why caring for them. As that would obliterate future threats. Future threats posed by former kids, now adults, growing in an environment where becoming a threat is a defense mechanism.

[valentina4eva]

i would give men the ability to think with their 🧠 once and a while, and not only with their 🍆
😂😅😂


and i will take ur threat detection powers!!👀 that is a superpower!!

[beefcakebradybatson]

I have a 160+ IQ, lady. I can think with my large head and huge brain.

[Asad1ONE1]

Sounds like you’ve been cheated on a lot

[beefcakebradybatson]

@Asad1ONE1 I LOVED the 1966 Bob Kuban and the In-Men hit "(Look Out For) The Cheater." (Kuban,84, died of a stroke Jan.20,2025.)

[valentina4eva]

lol im sure everyone is 160+ IQ on the internet!!😂🤣

[Asker]

You get your point @valentina4eva Men are wired to visual and often promiscuous (although a growing number of women can also be that way).

But on the flip side highly intelligent guys can be boring to women and often get friend zoned. Women want men to think with their Ds at the RIGHT TIME. So maybe give men a superpower of better being able to pick up on vibes and signals.

Most of us don’t have that super power (wish recommendation for women) and honestly it isn’t our fault. Biologically we think differently then women.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Thinking only with their #boyjoy gets lots of lads into trouble. And unlike Yours Truly, who has cover boy good looks to go with my Mensa-level intelligence, most brainiac boys are quite plain and frail-appearing.(I'm 5'81/2",200 lb. with 17-inch arms.)

[Vegasrunner]

I would provide women with the ability to think logically.

[Asker]

They do have that ability but their emotions hijack it. Also let’s be brutally honest with ourselves. Have you ever a highly logical woman? I have. Communication was easy, effective and they are more comfortable/productive to interact with.

But let’s be real. Are most guys romantically attracted to that highly logical women? At least initially? Deep down I know the ugly truth on that.

[Vegasrunner]

@Asker Im saying I would give them the gift to override those emotions. I've been with over 400 hundred women and have dealt with 10's of thousands when I was a VIP host, I have only encountered two logical women in my lifetime. Guys are attracted to beauty not a woman's mind.

[Nikki1989]

Empathy, kindness and compassion, respect, intelligence, a sense of humor, honesty and integrity, good manners.

[Jammannn]

be nice if you learnt that

[Asker]

Okay but I said ONE super power. Choose just one.

[Phoenix98]

The ability to turn into a man because you'll never know our side of fence better unless you live it. It's something you have to experience for yourself.

[live2dance25]

Understand that men can be vulnerable too, even though society often makes men have to hold those things within.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It would be nice if they could see what the male fantasy actually is and how great for everyone it actually is

[Yannae]

The ability to see through one guy's past and experiences.

[genericname85]

i'd give them the superpower of "taking responsibility for ones own actions". cause if women started doing that, they'd understand everything.

[Zionne]

The ability to see if this relationship goes forever or not

[msc545]

I would give women the ability to understand what it's like to feel like you can never do anything right.

[RandomGirl42]

I have often felt like I can never do anything right. I don't think that would be a productive power for anyone. It's just realizing our own negative beliefs about ourselves.

[BigBang1001]

We are special in our own way, women are women for a reason and men are men for a reason. Both are exceptional in their own right! 🥰

[Anonymous]

To know what it feels like to have a big dick and cum in a beautiful girl's mouth while she's squeezing your balls and have her swallow it all. That would about sum up why we do everything we do.

[Iron_Man]

Knowledge

[beefcakebradybatson]

Realize we boys LOVE a good b. j. !!!