How do I attract guys when I'm a 5?

[Pagez]

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6 mo

I uploaded my photo to a rating site and scored a 5. In. How do I appear interested without being too obvious? In public, guys stare at me, but only a few approach me... always the wrong guys. Don't have their lives together, currently in a relationship, immature, 90 day fiance types.

[DishLady]

Guys wouldn't stare at you if you were an actual 5. You probably took a very shitty test.

[Pagez]

Thanks.

[Zack-Bann]

Either lose weight or gain weight
Depending on where you are on that scale


The unfortunate truth is: physical attraction is highly linked to physical fitness


Good things happen to slim curvy girls
Always.


The good news is, there’s not much more to do
You don’t need a high paying job
You don’t need advanced humor or intellect


You can have all that just for yourself but your attractiveness level is mainly linked to a healthy lifestyle

[Pagez]

Nah! I don't want a guy who would leave me if I gained or loss weight.

[RavVid]

It is not all body appearance. Some girls just look approachable whilst others look like they have police on speed dial.

Men have different mate selection criteria to women. It is well worth while for you to understand what men value and being what they value.

[Pagez]

So, why not provide that info?

[RavVid]

Was wanting to see if your are interested. My top 3 are
1. Genuinely nice
2. Calm
3. Feminine

I see nice as an umbrella of a number of virtuous qualities and is verifiable. Cooperative, appreciative, family oriented and most of sees the guy as the most important family member, giving in affection and sex, accepts guys are different... and respects her guy. RESPECT is most important of all.

When we come home we want you to be our peace. We don't want to be in another power struggle after finishing up power struggles at work. A lot of girls are addicted to cortisol and don't feel alive without it. Girls that are always seek excitement are likely to cheat and prone to be bored and leave

We like feminine cause we've got guy friends and don't need anymore masculine energy. Sundresses, skirts etc. We might look at girls with their tits out but for relationships we want attractively demure. There are also the feminine virtues - you can google that

[Nikki1989]

A 5 to you might be a 10 to somewhere else.

See where I am going with this?

[Pagez]

Yes, thanks

[UniquelyBasic]

A 5 isn't even low lol 😂 Most people are a 5 if you believe in rating people because most people are average as a whole.

[Staximus]

Stay in your league and you'll be fine. Don't set yourself up for disappointment. Don't expect to get the guy all the girls want. Like for example- I'm kind of short and overweight. Not obese but not fit. I don't make a lot of money. Im not going to expect to pull a girl that looks like a model who only goes out with rich guys, or guys that most women find extremely attractive. That's not realistic expectations.

[Staximus]

And if you're only 20, what 20 year old has his life together? Not many. 20 year olds don't know their ass from a hole on the ground and are still trying to figure out life. You already have unrealistic expectations. Signs the guy is not a psycho, mental case, criminal, drug addict, or raging alcoholic then don't worry about it.

[Staximus]

If the guy is not a psycho, mental case, criminal, drug addict, or raging alcoholic then don't worry about it

[WonderingManII]

Not all men are superficial. Remember we want a girl that loves us back, and enjoys being with us. Not all attractive women are loving women.

[jahaims]

Other 5s exist obviously. Date in your league or below.

[Pagez]

I'm not shallow, however, the male 5s who approach me dont have their crap together. I'm wanting to attract decent guys.

[LiamS95]

Who says you're a 5/10? I bet you're more like an 8/10.

[Pagez]

😊 thanks!

[LiamS95]

You're welcome

[Daytoday79]

By finding a guy who isn't superficial -- there are higher priorities than a person's height.

[Zionne]

just be yourself, men will be drawn to you

[shortster]

Have you tried approaching them?

[Pagez]

Yes, the guy was gay!

[shortster]

Well, that is unfortunate.