How have you changed in the last ten to fifteen years?

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I went from wanting the bad boy types in college to the nerdy looking guys. I went from being totally naive and insecure to confident and sure of myself.

While some things are still a work in progress like my shyness and being quiet around people I don't know very well, I'm getting better at opening up to people I don't know very well.

beenherebefore · Accepted Answer

I've changed a lot. Nowadays I tend to have a more conservative opinion about things whilst in the past due to inexperience I used to have a more liberal mindset. I'm way more private about my personal life and thanks to my Partner I feel like I've matured a lot.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Definitely more focused and driven when it comes to academics.

ohsheeT · Answer

I grow every day. I mean , I used to be very introvertive and very shy , and sometimes they still get that way , but the more I learn the more I change. And at the same time, there's always that time to just be quiet and listen.
Just depends on the moment , but I try to grow every day one way or the other some way   Life starts going way too fast and 1 day I'll know that there's just not going to be enough time, so I try to live it the best way possible. And that is to experience for me. I have to experience everything. I mean. Because everything is Different, and there are more beautiful things that will just give you clarity. You just gotta find them

Summeroflove · Answer

Standards and boundaries change with maturity and experience. My type has definitely changed as well but I’m a lot happier now then I would have ever been with the type of females I used to like. That I used to think about… and frankly they weren’t all I thought they were.

AviatorTom · Answer

Got married for the second time, more gray hair, larger waist

BADGER44 · Answer

NOT MUCH. I GUESS I SHOULDVE. BUT ILL FIGHT THAT 4EVER. SOCIETY SURE WANTS TO DITATE IT TO US. THEY SURE PUT PREASURE ON DONT THEY? TRACY CHAPMAN THOUGHT IN 87. THERE WAS A WAR GOING ON... SHE SHOULD SEE IT TODAY... WAR TO STEAL YOUR SOUL... YOUR HEART. YOUR WELL BEING YOUR FREEDOM... SLOW TAKE AWAY OF THIS BEEN GOING ON SINCE 87... WE LOST THAT BATTLE FOR GOOD wouldn't YOU SAY... WELL NEVER BE AS FREE AS WE WERE. MOST SOCIETY doesn't WANT US TO BE. THEIR ALL AFRAID. PUT HELMETS ON KIDS. WHILE THEY PLAY. IF THEY PLAY OUTSIDE NOT ON THEIR GADGETS AND IN THEIR HOMES. CAN THEY TALK TO EACH OTHER WITHOUT A GADGET. I DONT THINK THEY CAN...

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Not a whole lot I am still basically the same..
I guess I became more of an asshole and not so naive..
I got a bit of help to get out of severe depression and to control my emotions..
I learned to have more patience and focus on things that make myself happy without needing others.

sawno · Answer

definitely, slightly over 10 years ago I had my full health ago. Ever since its been a journey of getting it back and while i'm not there yet I have made a lot of progress compared to where I started.

But my belief systems have been changed by events I actually did predict, but imagined couldn't ever happen in real life.

Coden7 · Answer

I want to say I’ve become nicer overall, but also less tolerant towards people who try and take advantage of me or my friends. I’ve narrowed a bit on who I maintain relationships with so I can make better time with them.

jazzy34 · Answer

At work, I used to be overly dramatic when I made a mistake. I had a manager who would always reassure that it wasn’t the end of the world. Also, I’m much calmer in general when I’m at work. I’ll never forget him. 😊

NathanDavis · Answer

that would be my 20's so... not really, not a substantial change but an adjustment, yes I do have much more experience than 10 or 15 years ago so that makes a whole lot of a difference

RandomGirl42 · Answer

15 years ago I was 10 years old so, I've changed in quite a few ways. But I still believe in unicorns. 🦄

DJB72 · Answer

Husband to husband and father to widower single dad. Oh yes, I also technically died and had my right leg amputated below the knee. Normal fifties stuff...

exitseven · Answer

I have decided to retire and that has put me in a different mindset. I am a lot more laid back and think more about the future. I also have put on a few pounds.

LiamJHayden · Answer

In 15 years? A lot. I went from a stupid promiscuous teen to a much more choosy businessman. I lost both parents. Was able to take control of the inheritances from my grandparents and then parents.

Bricealan · Answer

@simslover92 You made much progress.  I have made more progress, in accepting loss and changes in my life and loss of family

sage2021 · Answer

I just think that I've been more informed about things but I am better for that.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes, life changes every 10 years, and just work to make it good changes.

worldscolide · Answer

My ability to tolerate people has dropped through the floor.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have become a lot more motivated in advancing my career and music ambitions.

queenofcardio · Answer

I've gotten really close to my family over the past couple of years.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I became careless and more like a zombie as simple as that, i have realized that none of the people that i knew deserved anything good from me!

Anonymous · Answer

I went from cutting myself everyday to not doing it for 7 years actually getting married and wanting kids

stratford · Answer

I have been on a journey of sexual discovery, it has been so liberating.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

I changed my underwear, but I'm still wearing the same jeans.

msc545 · Answer

Well, if nothing else, it sounds like your taste in men has improved marginally.

WellBye · Answer

I grew boobs.😂😂

WhitneySnow · Answer

I have changed a lot in the past five years

Shiprex · Answer

Yes wisdom and shingles have affected me

goaded · Answer

Not much, but I was about 45 then.

Massageman · Answer

Joints are bugging me.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I'm only 20 so not yet

Xawyx-2 · Answer

Not much at all, I'm mostly the same.

Zionne · Answer

height and less grumpy lol

austinbooth · Answer

I don't change much.

dudeinohio · Answer

I've pretty much stayed the same, actually.

Slim57 · Answer

I haven't changed a bit

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