Guys, if a girl was really beautiful and sweet but had an excessive amount of family drama would it scare you away or still pursue her?

[RoliPoliOli]

I met a guy through an online selling app when he bought a car from my parents. I liked him right away, but he showed up with his child and the child’s mother. He told my dad he was single, while the woman told my mom he was her boyfriend. The next day he messaged me asking if I was single and insisted he didn’t have a girlfriend. I eventually told him about my family issues, said I wasn’t in the right headspace, and asked him to leave me alone. The next morning, he texted me “Sorry.

[ohsheeT]

Ok so you have had to deal with your family for awhile and you know down deep. to stop that would be to move out then you meet a guy with a child and you would thing he is in the child's life then you have the parents who. dont know if they are together or not because someone is lying more drama something you dont need if your beautiful yes sometimes it's hard to find a guy because they all think you beautiful so that means you use be taken i can't tell. you what to do but sounds like something is going on with you to

[RoliPoliOli]

What are the chances he’s lying about not being with the mother of his child anymore? It’s been verified they don’t live in the same city.

[Staximus]

The guy showed up with his kid and his girlfriend, are you stupid?

[RoliPoliOli]

I know, I know😭😭. Yes, it’s true they don’t live together and I verified that myself. So, part of me wants to believe what he told my dad that he’s only in town to see his kid. But then again, at one point he did say they tried fixing things but it didn’t work out. I don't know what to think anymore. But I told him to leave me alone and to block me. He didn’t block me and only replied with “sorry”, it’s beeen two days since we talked,

[Staximus]

If he wasn't with that girl anymore then why did he bring her with him to shop for a car? Nevermind Mr shady smooth talker, he's still fucking his ex-girlfriend girlfriend baby's mama whatever the hell she is. Do you want to be the next girl he gets pregnant and leaves? Think about that.

[RoliPoliOli]

You’re absolutely right. Yeah, I thought he was cute, and if he wouldn’t have had so many question marks I would’ve been all for it but you’re right… not trying to be stuck in her situation. So like, why do you think he hasn’t blocked me?

[Staximus]

Because he wants to make you the next girl he gets pregnant and leaves

[RoliPoliOli]

😭😭😭😭😭

[Nikki1989]

If a girl is sweet and beautiful, that’s the initial draw. But if she is also self-aware, sets boundaries, and says, “My family is crazy, but I’m not part of the circus,” most guys will stay.

[RoliPoliOli]

Should I be worried about the “Sorry”, as in he won’t be reaching out anymore. What about the “gf”?

[Nikki1989]

I would take everything he says with a grain of salt at this point.

[RoliPoliOli]

Yeah, I feel the same way. Too many question marks.

[Anonymous]

Me and my now husband love going to my family events because we have lots to judge and discuss after lol

[Summeroflove]

Depends on the choices she makes. She can’t pick her family. But she can choose who she is

[exitseven]

if she had little kids I would say no. I have no interest in raising somebody elses kid. If the kids were older I might think about it

[RoliPoliOli]

Yeah, my mom said his kid looked young, maybe less than 5. She was with the “gf” and her child while my dad left with the guy to test drive the car.

[exitseven]

little kids take a lot of time and attention and are not very autonomous.

[RoliPoliOli]

You think he might be lying about not being with the child’s mother anymore? They do live in different cities and that’s verified. The only question mark is, the girlfriend said they were dating and he told my dad he only comes to town to see the kids.

[FunkyMonkee]

If it ended up involving me, I'd either split or try to get her to come with me to get away from that shit.

[DryGermanGuy]

Maybe I would, but I sure as hell would stay away from her family. 🫤

[Jeff51]

No. I would try it.