No romantic experience despite having my life squared away?

[Anonymous]

Here’s the thing. I work out and stay in shape. I have a good paying career, making $80k annually. I have my degrees. I have my own place to live. I have a good social life. I am only 5 ft 9 which means I’m not tall. And I go out to meet people as much as possible.

However, I still have no romantic experience whatsoever. Absolutely nothing. And I’m 28M. What are some ways to gain the experience before I truly age out of the idea of starting a family?

[Summeroflove]

Well where are you looking for women? Also you’re putting a lot of value into things that if you flaunt as the only reasons someone should date you can and will get you used.

I don’t know where you’re meeting women. I don’t know what your type is. What type of woman do you want?

[Asker]

I ultimately want someone I can start a family with. It does limit my prospects a bit, but it’s not something I wanna end up regretting.

[Summeroflove]

And what woman do you see as material to be a good wife and mom. What would make a good wife and mom in your eyes

[Asker]

1. Can have and wants kids (for obvious reasons).

2. Isn’t on drugs or unstable

3. Is responsible with money

4. Loves and takes care of kids

5. Is willing to compromise on kids

[Summeroflove]

That isn’t a bad list.

Okay. Would you rather have a woman whose more traditional. Such as…. Staying home with the kids and taking care of the house and childcare.

Or a woman whose dedicated and career focused.

[Nikki1989]

What you’re feeling is frustration, not failure. And it’s fixable.