If you are talking to a girl from work on Snapchat off the clock and you ask for her number and she gives it to you should you ask her to hang out?

[Anonymous]

[MJVillarama]

if she gave you her number, that’s a green light. Numbers are for making plans. Don’t overthink it.

I learned this from Modern Success: when someone invests, you lead. Just ask her out casually, like:
“Let’s grab a drink this week. you free Thursday?”

Simple, confident, done.

[Asker]

Does it matter that I asked for her number on Snapchat and we were considered work friends?

[Summeroflove]

If you want to hang out with her it's a good sign.

[Asker]

Why is it a good sign?

[Summeroflove]

The fact you have her snap

[Asker]

Snapchat is very casual

[Summeroflove]

Just ask her

[Nikki1989]

It is always permissible to enquire, but it is imperative to refrain from making any assumptions.

[DishLady]

Yeah probably. Why else would she give you her number?

[Asker]

I thought she was just being polite because she didn't want to risk it being awkward at work if she said no

[HollyK21]

So what was the point of asking for her number?

[Asker]

To be honest it sounds crazy but I don't know. We were talking on Snapchat and I just asked

[HollyK21]

It doesn’t sound crazy, it just sounds like something you don’t do without intention. When you asked her, you were either feeling some kind of way about her or subconsciously thinking of something else.

[Asker]

Exactly. Logically it would make sense to ask her to hang out?

I thought she gave me her number to be polite

[HollyK21]

She could’ve been being polite, but that’s unknown. You won’t know unless you ask her out. I know that fear of rejection comes with that but “no” is not gonna kill you.

[jamesgoldman]

Sure, I mean I was given numbers without asking for them

In the second case we were already involved by that point but the first I had that number for months platonically and didn't call it until during the summer holidays, like 8 months before we actually started dating

[aceleon]

yeah, she didn't give number for just the hell of it.

[Asker]

I actually thought she did. I asked for her number on Snapchat where we built a work friend relationship. I didn't think I could ask her to hang out.

[aceleon]

oh, my bad, then it is still a risky situation, best course of action would be invite her for work related stuff and turn that thing into a date subtly.

[DryGermanGuy]

Or… you can sell the number to the local football studs, make everyone happy.
@Kelley1 You approve? 😁

[888theGreat]

or Put the number on bathroom wall , LOL OH MY

[Kelley1]

@DryGermanGuy No! I don't approve. Football players wouldn't buy her number. Nevertheless, you have no right to reveal another person's personal information.

[DryGermanGuy]

@Kelley1
Dayum! How will that unknown girl ever receive a proper satisfaction? 😭

[queenofcardio]

Yes , ask and let me know because I'm curious

[zagor]

If you want to do that then sure.

[Asker]

If I did would she look at that and think where is that coming from?

[zagor]

She did give you her # so what would you think her idea of why you asked was?

[Asker]

Although we were coworkers and it happened off the clock, you don't think she did it to be polite?

[zagor]

One way to find out...

[In_Trance]

Don't try to fuck your coworkers

[Asker]

Who said anything about fucking your coworkers? I said hang out which in my eyes would be coffee, lunch, etc..

[In_Trance]

Yea ok... You can do that with your buddies
If you didn't want to fuck her you wouldn't be doing it

[Asker]

Not at all. I want to get to know her. You acting like girls only purpose is to be your fuck Buddy.

[In_Trance]

Good luck with that

[MissSunshine2]

I think so.

[Asker]

Can you elaborate why?

[MissSunshine2]

Because I don’t think she’d have given you her number if she wasn’t interested.

[Asker]

You don't think girls give their number out to be polite or the context surrounding me getting her number meant more?

[MissSunshine2]

No I don’t think they do that to be polite.

[Asker]

Don't you think younger girls in their early 20s are more likely to?

[MissSunshine2]

No I don’t