Is friends with benefits catching feelings or trying to lead me on?

[Anonymous]

The guy I just started seeing told me he hasn’t stopped thinking about me since I left. And the last time I seen him he told me to give him a kiss goodbye. And he also texts me a least once a day. Is he catching feelings or trying to lead me on?

[HollyK21]

Until you have the comfortability to talk to him about this, or he brings it up, then your best bet is never to make any assumptions. Just because he isn’t silent aside from setting up an appointment or being cold blooded does not mean this isn’t just casual sex. You also need to be honest with yourself about what you want from him and realistic about if he’s offering it. Who knows, maybe you started out fine with a friends with benefits and then feelings started to grow because duh, you’re sharing your body and getting close to this guy. But if despite his kind words and romantic gestures a relationship isn’t on the table, then you’re only setting yourself up to suffer a serious heartbreak for getting the wrong impression.

[Anonymous]

Feelings maybe , it’s better to ask him tho.

[Twalli]

probably feelings