What is the single most attractive trait in someone for a potential romantic partner?

[HawkPerception]

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4 mo

Should've made a poll and added "funny" as one of the options

[7Phoenix7]

I only get to pick one? If only one then I’ll go with emotional intelligence. It’s sooo important to me that a guy has it…

A man with emotional intelligence will understand both his and my emotions and will most likely be better with regulating his own. He’ll most likely be better at communicating, empathizing, reflecting etc.

Most toxic or abusive relationships incudes someone that has very little emotional intelligence.

[realbiggrin]

Good point. It is a bigger factor in overall success in life than IQ.

[DishLady]

Their eyes. You can tell almost anything from looking into a person's eyes.

[AviatorTom]

She should have two pretty eyes that like to look at me

[aaron13547]

I like acts of selflessness and compassion. Like when people walk past a piece of trash and step over it... the one that picks it up, is attractive to me.

That women that pulls over to help a turtle cross the road, is the one that gets my heart.

[RandomGirl42]

Lol, I help turtles cross the road all the time! Well, not in winter but u get what I mean. 🤣

[aaron13547]

Lol, I bet you do! Where do the turtles go in the winter? 🤔

[HawkPerception]

@aaron13547 Turtles in cold climates survive winter by entering a hibernation-like state called brumation, usually by burying themselves in the mud at the bottom of lakes, ponds, or rivers. They remain underwater to avoid freezing, slowing their metabolism and heart rate drastically while absorbing oxygen through their skin and cloaca.

[RandomGirl42]

@aaron13547 What @HawkPerception said. 🤣

[aaron13547]

turtles need watch out for the hawk! And the cold...

[HawkPerception]

@aaron13547 It's true. I'm the one that made them ban turtle fishing. It's like ice fishing, but it's specifically for turtles.

[aaron13547]

Turtle fishing sounds like looking for a piece of hay in a cold needle stack. I can't imagine that would be fun... Your ban possibly made us smarter as a species if you are serious about this. If not im reading gullible off the ceiling right now

[HawkPerception]

@aaron13547 Lmaoo look up if turtle fishing is a thing brother 😂

[aaron13547]

🤯 and here @RandomGirl42 and I thought we were doing something good helping them cross the road.

Mad respect man 🙏 thanks for the awareness!

[HawkPerception]

@aaron13547 Wait what? You actually found something on it? I just made all that crap about turtle fishing up 😂

[aaron13547]

Apparently they gather at the bottom of ponds in the winter and if you wake them up to "fast" it basically kills them. So people catch the turtles easily in groups but then the turtle can't get back to sleep and dies... Apparently you didn't make it all up. 🤯🤯🤯 but I still dont know why anyone wants to go in a frozen pond in the winter to prove they can catch a turtle or 2. I get pissed when I catch a turtle in the summer trying to fish...

Frozen turtle fishing, makes me think of all the highly motivated people who died climbing Mt Everest...

[HawkPerception]

@aaron13547 Oh I didn't make all of it up. Everything from my first comment on your opinion was a copy and paste from Google or AI (can't remember which I used). But the turtle fishing comment was completely just playing along with your "turtles need watch out for the hawk" comment

[aaron13547]

Lol sometimes we know more then we know, we know 🐇🎩

[RandomGirl42]

@aaron13547 @HawkPerception Does that mean you find turtle fishing the single most attractive trait in someone for a potential romantic partner?

[MicahRaine]

I would say the single most attractive trait any person can have is the ability, desire, and willingness to love deeply and truly.

And there are many that can manifest. Someone might train their dog well and spend a lot of time with it, obsessively care for an orchid they were given, make time for their favorite niece/nephew and put their phone on "do not disturb," etc.

Everything good is a result of love, whether it be placed rightly or wrongly. And so, especially in a relationship, love is the most important and attractive trait that can be had. The phrase "Love conquers all things" is true, unless you have a very poor definition and understanding of love itself.

[dragoblack]

Passions in her interests & hobbies. If she can show that much passion in her interests, she can show it in a relationship. Also a woman with craft & gaming hobbies, means you both can have your own private time apart for a bit... it honestly does make for stabiler relationship compared to a woman whose "hobbies" is shopping, and spending hundreds, if not thousands on beautification & makeup to feed her insecurities, Who then shames the guy for having simple hobbies like gaming or watching anime that has very little cost with more enjoyment.

[Crimsyjo]

I'm not sure if thrtes a single trait that would need to be present and threaded through any potential romantic partner. I think there are physical traits - like someone of a bug enough build to make you feel protected and comfort in their arms. But personality trait? Probably a genuine good heart. So rare. And so hard to know who is genuine and who is pretending they are in order to get you to fall for them so they can use you.

[PeachyPie93]

Communication/emotional intelligence...
A guy who can understand you and knows how to reach you is the most attractive male.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Never was important enough, but now a days I tell all the young singles if they’re not physically active it’s just going to get worse so don’t waste your time.

[UrLoveMocha]

If someone can articulate their thoughts and are secure and able to express themselves.

[OPStellar]

I've always put honesty above all else. I saw a presentation where a guy was just generally saying "you have to be H. O. T. with your community" and I figured that extends to relationships. If you're not Honest, Open, and Transparent, then you ain't hot to me.

[YourExLover69]

If she is caring, loyal, romantic and initiates kissing with me 😏💞

[DailyFairy]

Loyalty... not only they are attractive, they are like another being for me just like they are rare. What can be more attractive n cute when ur man only keep himself for u n denied every potential advances from others.

[Bowserforever]

Similar beliefs. Religiously I mean. We could start a family together that way

[CuriousMufuxka]

The eyes.. I know you asked trait and again the eyes got that covered.

[4ngelic]

physically: good body structure

personality wise: humor

[Twodogs0525]

Kind, feminine, hard working, worships me (most of the time)...

[Brady]

It's 4... personality, compatibility, things in common n looks.

[HawkPerception]

But choose one

[Brady]

looks

[Xawyx-2]

It's face (including hair and eyes), because that's what I observe at first sight.

[miana]

Feeling safe with said someone.

[RandomGirl42]

Sense of humor 🤣

[kavakava]

Brains are also good, because there's always a risk you may have to talk at some point.

[kavakava]

Wrong one 😔

[kavakava]

I meant to send you a zombie pic. Sorry.

[RandomGirl42]

@kavakava 🤣🤣🤣

[kavakava]

This is the pic I thought was on the clipboard.

[OlderAndWiser]

Loyal and attentive.

[bobalife]

Genuine kindness for me.

[queenofcardio]

If he's outdoorsy

[queenofcardio]

I also love funny guys

[exitseven]

She has to be all in for the relationship.

[NerdGuy89]

She’s not a feminist and can think for herself

[Cidknee]

What options?

[HawkPerception]

Gotta think of them yourself

[Cidknee]

Oh, trait!

A wide array of emotions.

[realbiggrin]

Compassion.

[RavVid]

A calm happy nice nature

[Hagar88]

Loyalty

[Alex-Snow]

Honesty

[fish5505_87]

Smile and eyes!

[ABC1x1x]

Curiosity

[RubyRed12343]

Charisma.

[Nicole12t]

Humility

[laryipels]

their body for sure

[Butterfly38142]

Loyalty