Guys, what instantly attract you (non-physical)?

[bobalife]

[Still-alive]

You’re Asking a lot of questions tonight, i dig it lol.

for me probably if they demonstrate kindness or sweetness towards me or others around us. Empathy is a big deal to me so those things will always get me. We need more of it in the world!

[Still-alive]

Oh i just thought of something else that gets me is if they actually are listening to what I have to say and asking me questions back. Too often i have found myself being the main driver in a conversation with someone asking them questions but if they are asking stuff back it usually shows me they somewhat care. Always a plus for me.

[Anonymous]

When I watch her help someone she has absolutely nothing to gain by helping.

[ohsheeT]

Either her eyes if she can talk with them. Or a very strong energy coming from her

[FunkyMonkee]

Personality, sense of humour.
I got a job working at Cedar Point on the Midway at the games. If someone had a day off or was sick, I'd fill in for them. My first job was working at the Panther Pitch. There was a girl there that I quickly fell in love with! She was cute, rather short, had a quick wit and a great sense of humour and was very out-going!! Those attracted me to her!! My boss's name (at that game) was Joel. He was Hawaiian and 2 of his sisters also worked at the games. Theirs was the next one over from ours. They were both, taller, very pretty and friendly but, I much preferred Cheryl over them because of her personality!!
As far as I can recall, I never even NOTICED the size of a girl's tits until a few years later!! So, up until my early 20's, tits had nothing to do with my attraction to a girl!! Basically, they still don't but they ARE a kind of extra added attraction to the whole package!! I PREFER bigger tits but, that's not as important as her personality!!

[CalmUntilAbused]

I don't think I can get instantly attracted to any woman at this point. A pleasant smile (as opposed to a contemptous grimace) and opposing feminism give a woman some bonus points, though. Basically... If You've ever seen Shoe0nHead or Christine Grace Smith... Yeah, these two women are nailing those two traits. Even the terrfying fact that Christine Grace Smith is blonde kind of pales in comparison to Her pleasant atmosphere.

[NathanDavis]

accents, for sure sure...

that's actually how I "found" one of my exes... before I even knew of her or saw her, I heard her giggling and then talking with that accent of hers

I went through the walls instantly, like the Kool-Aid Man...

[DonaldDarko]

It's not easy to put into words It's kind of an aura something you can't really define. It's also entirely in my imagination and has nothing to do with what ever woman I'm attracted to is the thing. It's always that way no matter how strong the attraction is it's as meaningless as the voices a skitzophrenic hears in his head.

[Purpleronnie]

There is no one thing including physical features that instantly attract me whether romantically or sexually.


For me attraction generally grows once I know a woman more.

[WonderingManII]

Her kindness. Saying Hi, to me a lot. Making me feel noticed. Please don't crush my heart afterwards, like one woman did.

[dragoblack]

Her being openly passionate about her interests and hobbies.

[msc545]

An outgoing personality and a good conversationalist.

[Twodogs0525]

If we have similar taste in music.

[serious]

Sweet nature of the person.

[dudeinohio]

A compatible personality

[Bklynbadboy12]

Short thick and curvy does it for me every time

[CubaPirate]

Kindness and understanding

[shortster]

Kindness

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Kindness.

[wkhan_87]

Smile and behaviour