What kind of confidence are you most attracted to in someone?

[Anonymous]

The term is subject in my opinion, i. e. quiet confidence? Loud confidence? Etc or any other type you have

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am attracted to both. Probably I am attracted to quiet confidence tiny bit more…

However, loud confidence works better with me, because sometimes I can be a little clueless and can’t get the hints, I do better with being told directly and confidently what a man wants.

[Asker]

Exactly, and directness / address their thoughts there and then?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep. I like to he told what they want, what they expect and etc. or I can be a bit bratty if I am not told directly of their expectations and I like to tease and test the boundaries… Sometimes…
So like to having that taken away by them giving me the feeling of safety and having boundaries early on.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I prefer the guy who shows confident through body language, respect, wit, through actions in general. Or just the way they walk.

I'm trying to picture loud confidence, but all I see is "I AM IT!!" And that sounds more like arrogance.

[Asker]

Nice name

[Ms_Facesitter]

Thank you!

[Summeroflove]

Well a lot of so called confidence is fake especially when it’s over the top. Genuine confidence is people who have become secure in themselves and don’t need to impress everyone. They don’t go out of their way to be assholes but at the same time they get called assholes by genuine assholes. Because they don’t care what people think and tend not to let people walk all over them.

[Simslover92]

Quiet confidence for sure. The one where they don't have to say anything. You just know they're confident from the moment they walk in.

[Asker]

I feel like this is going to be the most common type 😅

[Simslover92]

Haha it just might be lol

[Asker]

Do you notice men (or women) with a quiet confident aura often?

[Simslover92]

Men more than women

[bobalife]

Great question! I’m attracted to a mixed of both and it would be perfect to have a combination… they both can be admirable and sexy at the same time… quiet confidence can surprising, humble, and mysterious to me. A loud confidence can get my attention and make me notice them more.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

In a public, social scenario, someone loudly confident isn't confident to me, it's attention-seeking and it makes people automatically gather to counter it. On the other hand, I've seen myself getting closer to someone when a third-party was throwing loud confidence, it's socially useful in its own way 😂

[MontBlanc]

The kind of confidence that’s quiet, self assured, and grounded not loud or arrogant.

It’s the type that comes from knowing your worth, being comfortable with yourself, and treating others with respect, rather than trying to dominate or impress.

[Still-alive]

Real authentic confidence and not that gloating ‘im better than the world’ type which is really just arrogance and not confidence.

a real confident person you just know through vibes and actions and less through words

[Nikki1989]

It’s the quiet, grounded version that comes from someone who knows who they are and doesn’t need to prove it.