What are some qualities in a person that make you feel you can highly trust them?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

You know what I really like this question because I tried to answer it or five different times and I've come to the conclusion that there is different types of of trust. Usually I would say I have no reason to not just anybody until they give me that reason but depending on what it is that I'm trusting them with that's bulshit so I had to look at myself and be honest and if you ask me if I was going to be there at 7 tomorrow night good I said yes there's no way you could trust me on that because I'm always late if I borrow 20 bucks from you you could dress me to pay it back if you had a deep dark secret you could trust me to take it to my grave but when it comes 2 time need some place in a certain time. You can't trust me I'm not trustworthy I will be late everything time I don't know I trust many people many times and I've been burnt many times and I knew I was going to get burnt when I was doing whatever I was doing I see qualities are anybody that's straight-up doesn't talk shit about anybody else. you know what to be honest I don't know because I'm not going to trust anybody with anything I mean if it's Petty bullcrap yeah I'll say I'll trust you until you give me a reason not to but when it comes down to deep deep things I don't trust anyone the world's changed too much people are in it are different nobody has morals values are ethics anymore I mean yes there are people yes. But most of the people I know some do some don't the ones I would think that it have it the very rich people are the most fucked-up people the poorest people the poorest of poor people yeah I would trust them more than anybody else

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

When they show a level of respect to you and others.

When you have seen an example of lesser things, when they agree to a certain time date and show up, when they say they will do something they actually do it.

The level of trust they show in you, it can be reciprocated action.

also levels of trust develop, you share a minor bit of information, they do and you gradually learn trust.

through our actions we earn trust

Jumping sideways a bit with this.

within BDSM (lifestyle stuff not bedroom) there is a thing that is Trust comes before obedience.

basically a sub is trust her Dom with her both physically and mentally, they need to be 100% certain they can trust this person.

the trust between a Dom and sub is very high because it covers both physical and mental, and also involves respect.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

If a guy is honest when you don’t expect him to be. Like a guy from work was hitting on this gorgeous girl and his friend gave him a dirty look and said “dream on.” Somebody that honest is unusual.

kyleelyn199723 · Accepted Answer

I really don’t trust anyone so that’s hard. I feel like people do good things but then they also do bad things. I feel like that’s a thing for everyone where you can’t 100% trust anyone

HawkPerception · Answer

Openess and communicative. An example is if my partner consistently lets me know where they are and who they're with without me having to ask them, I'll develop trust over time with them. It's the same as if they tell me what they're feeling. No secrets in what their thoughts are or what they're feeling in any scenario will make me trust them blindly when they say something. I always do this with my partner and I hope that they do it without me asking. I don't want to have to tell them. It should be a mutual feeling. My ex and I did it without ever telling each other and we trusted each other blindly.

cheeky_starfish · Answer

I would say if they are humble and modest - if they are willing to admit their successes and their failures - and if they are very down to Earth, then I would be more likely to feel like I can trust them. Also, if they tell you the truth whether you like it or not. Say for example, you are trying on clothes - rather than saying everything looks great, for them to say what looks great and what looks terrible and justifying why, this will make me feel more like they are honest and trustworthy, even if I don’t like their honest opinions. Trust takes some time to build and only one deceit to destroy, but trust comes with time and is a feeling that grows within you over time 🙂

oldasIfeel22 · Answer

Here is what makes me trust someone

1. If they are willing to trust you with confidential information.

2. If they demonstrate strong spiritual beliefs. This is different then SAYING they have strong spiritual beliefs. This comes out on how they treat other people.

3. If they don’t seem overly focused on image. Some people do a fantastic job of living a lie. But you can tell by looking into their eyes when they smile. I knew a girl who had the best fake smile I have ever seen in my life back in college. But there was a hint in her eyes that she was two faced / liar.

4. Last but not least is if they gossip. At the end of the day we all gossip. But the difference is it gossiping with someone you know very well? If an acquaintance starts trash talking someone in 3rd person I immediately lose trust and respect for them.

throwsomecheeseonit · Answer

Well I do not think there ate qualities as much as actions. Anyone can posses certain qualities and talk a good game then stab you in the back. So I guess if consistency was a quality I would choose that. Because the more consistent you are the less likely you are flaky or dishonest. A dishonest person has to always think of new excuses and lies abd is rarely consistent. Also I guess maybe actual kindness. What I mean is helping people from kindness of your heart not just to get recognition or reward.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Someone that helps you move. Selfless acts. Too many people nowadays will only hang out/talk/date a person if there is something in it for them.
Someone that has never lied to you
Someone that has once dropped everything they’re doing to come help you with a flat tire or whatnot.
They’re Respectful
Looks you in the eye when they talk and speaks with Conviction.
This is a big one too. Someone you saw when they don’t know you’re around and you see them do a selfless act for others.
Someone who has humility. Not afraid to admit when they’re wrong
Someone that doesn’t gossip
Just overall someone you feel comfortable with. You can usually tell with your gut feeling.

Hope this helps

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t trust any girls now. To put so much time, effort and value into 1 girl to make you happier or be your significant other is all BS. I have tried to better myself, I’ve tried to be chill, I’ve focused on myself with school and work and saving money, nothing works. I’m not some arrogant, pompous dude who drinks, sleeps around or does drugs. Nothing has worked and it’s been rejection after rejection so I just gave up, I opened up to girls and provided words from my heart and still got it stomped on. Fuck it, it’s literally made me dead inside. I will wish others well if they are happy and in relationships because I don’t want to be a bitter guy. But I have the right on who I want to trust or not, and personally I think girls are liars. Someone may read that and say “that’s a blanket statement guys lie to”. I know guys/men lie. I’m just giving my perspective to when it’s girls they probably lie more.

Still-alive · Answer

if they share something extremely personal that they'd NEVER or hardly ever tell another soul. thats a big one for me

Ninani · Answer

If they are calm, resonable, respectful of other people's boundaries, show interest in others.

2ndTryatThis · Answer

When they share without being asked.. like what’s in their mind, or if they have a problem with something..

if they’re someone who works hard.. if they are willing to tell me when they mess up without me finding out later.. if they aren’t afraid to tell me things that might be embarrassing or not socially acceptable..

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Something that will develop over time I trust people until they give me a reason not to trust them.

meggykentums · Answer

Listening and being open. If they don't hold back what they're thinking or feeling.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Maturity, accountability, compassion and intelligence and most important one , time with them

RingOfFire · Answer

I am extremely slow to trust people. So I would say the key element in trust for me is time. I have to know you a long time and see that you never betray me even when it is hard for you not to and even when I am not looking.

pjf1958 · Answer

Consistency, even if I disagree with an individuals politics, beliefs, religion, etc, as long as I can trust where they stand, then I really can't ask for more than that.

DJB72 · Answer

I trust my gut instinct, but I guess there's little things. Their body language - those unconscious things that people can't fake. Pupil dilation, heart rate (watch the pulse in the neck), and a million other things I see that I know I can trust.

Leavesbound · Answer

She has faults similar to me. It's like you see in the old mafia movies. If I know you are as bad as me I can trust you more.

Anonymous · Answer

If they show signs of taking advantage of the government or other systems, it's a sign he thinks of others as objects to take advantage of rather than an entity that is a part of the ecosystem of life.

kkirk4442 · Answer

Honesty, steadfastness, caring, empathetic, doesn't gossip. tries to help others.

SandandWaves · Answer

through their actions matching their words. thats all i can think of right now

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Consistent display of good integrity. I begin with trusting and let ‘them’ reduce it on their own as necessary.

Phoenix98 · Answer

There aren’t any. When it comes to trust with me that like respect is something you earn.

RealMarek · Answer

A track record of consistent behavior and trustworthiness.

InferiorElegy · Answer

For me there are none, I have no trust in people. My whole life was filled with people showing me why I shouldn't have any trust in anyone.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

I'll keep it extremely basic, they know how to smile, and they speak normal

Mystery_World · Answer

When someone help me in tough situation. That's where you trust people.

Wiredone · Answer

When they are the one who always has your back and always willing to help you out. They don't lie.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Why so you can manipulate people? I’m starting to wonder if all women are on the spectrum or something.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know what its called but staying kind even when you’re mad.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Truat isn't something you should give based on qualities. Its something you should build based on experience

Guanfei · Answer

Someone who is openly caring about me, who proved I can count on them. Trust is earned, and you do that by proving you can be trusted.

anylolone · Answer

They are trusting but not too trusting. They are ok with being double checked.

cush_ebo · Answer

The one that send me continuously new tips in my Life.

Mark987 · Answer

Honesty for sure... someone that is open to talk.. someone that won't beat around the bush

NoLookingAtSoleil · Answer

That somehow comes across on its own. The eyes, the posture, the way they care about you.

Pulseofsulfur · Answer

Open minded and understanding for someone with mental illnesses, comforting when I'm in my darkest hours and generous

Seppel · Answer

I trust very fast I realy don't know what I need to Trust but I first trust anyone till the person looses my trust

Furuok · Answer

Empathy I think a big heart deserves a little trust.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I don’t know, it just happens. Like a teenager discovering they’re pregnant….. or something

SilverRain92 · Answer

Sincerity, genuine interest, absence of attempts to manipulate me

Napolii · Answer

I don't trust myself so i can't imagine myself trusting anybody. If anybody demands trust from me i will till them to fuck off.

Finally7 · Answer

If the way they behave is the same whether they're with their significant other or alone is a good sign of a high quality trustable person.

Blaine999 · Answer

A kind heart and an open mind, that is if i wasn't incapable of trust.

Marco10 · Answer

The pattern of their actions and my gut feeling.

Libbers · Answer

For me this takes time. Period.

taeh_ie2 · Answer

Openness and understanding

sensible27 · Answer

When they're truthful, no.

collie22 · Answer

honesty and integrity even it it hurts

Joshua0213 · Answer

There aren't really any, you have to earn trust

dolemite89 · Answer

they’re not a female 🤣

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

Honesty, loyalty, transparency

JohnTheGoodMan · Answer

Always tell the truth

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

Those who talk only when required..

alexis6996 · Answer

The not jealous type!

exitseven · Answer

They never lie.

Nick245 · Answer

Kindness

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

They never lie

canbeyxr · Answer

Send me pm

Asianguy123 · Answer

Honesty and openness

King-of-Evil · Answer

Kind eyes

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