Does this mean I should giveup?

[Anonymous]

I have been rejected several times by women and they ended up with taller and better looking men than me. Does this mean I should giveup? Im 5'9 ginger and unattractive if I worked on myself at best I would be average.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Gosh, there does seem to be an increase on this topic of women dating larger men and rejecting those that are "shorter". I wonder if it's all by the same person or not. Anyway, not all women care about height as long as the guy has a good personality. If you are being rejected, look there first.

[Asker]

Thank you. The men were also better looking than I am but I cannot do anything about that

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Nope, sure can't. However that isn't really important either. Looks might get you to the front door but personality gets you invited in..

[Asker]

Except clearly in my case it didn't

[Cyfris]

So go be the best average you can be bruh. You aren't the first average and you won't be the last. Plenty of them are happy and healthy and you can be to.

[slatyb]

It's not your appearance, it's your approach. How many women do you greet by name?

[Asker]

Not any after the last rejection and it has been 7

[Asker]

They also ended up with taller and better looking men than me so how is it not appearance?

[slatyb]

So you don't do anything where you could meet women, you just hit on them on the street? That's not going to work because you have no idea how to approach a woman without putting her off. Find an activity that attracts women, get involved, get to know everyone, but don't hit on anyone for at least three months. When you get used to interacting with women dating will be much easier.

[Summeroflove]

Not really I’ve seen shorter men date shorter women, same height, and taller. It just depends on the man and the women he’s picking

[Anonymous]

No, but it does mean you should change your tactics. You're almost to the age of the power shift. That where women start approaching men. I virtually never ask any woman out. I let them come to me. If they don't watch to, it's no loss to me.👍