Reaching out after cutting him off?

[Anonymous]

I cut my guy off a few days ago because I was in my feelings about something and sent him a long paragraph saying I didn’t want to talk anymore. But he’s the only person I’ve been sleeping with. And I really want to see him this weekend Would it look weird if I texted him 3 days after cutting him off, or should I just leave it alone?

[ohsheeT]

Leave it alone for a few.

If you wouldn't had said he's the only guy im sleeping with.

And then what started it was you were in a feeling moment

And then said you told him not to get ahold of you

It's as if you had another plan and maybe it didn't work out so now you want to go back something doesn't add up


I say if you didn't do anything off the side then you should probably go back to him but you have to be honest with him about it. but if you did do something which it kind of sounded like to me but you have to be honest with you and then him

[Staximus]

That depends on what you said to him. If you said something like "leave me alone for a few days" that's fine. If you told him not to contact you anymore and now you want to see him again, then that's not cool at all. That makes you crazy and an asshole.

[Asker]

me the guy had an argument and stopped talking. Weeks later he came back around but didn’t apologize. I felt like him disappearing was intentional, so a few days after we talked again I sent a paragraph saying I didn’t like how he came back around without giving me an apology and I told him I was done talking to him He responded saying his actions weren’t intentional. After thinking about it for a few days, I realized I might have reacted emotionally and I’m over the situation now.

[CriminallyInsane]

Monday: "I don't want to talk to you anymore"

Thursday: "Can I see you this weekend"?

I think you know how you'd sound.

[Jeff51]

He may talk to you. Try it reaching out and if nothing from him then move on

[StephanieChick111]

Yes, make up your mind.

[DryGermanGuy]

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[In_Trance]

Woman being awful