Why would a guy who has a girl often text me?

[Lillybloommm2746643]

It’s been happening for a while that we text in a bold way if u know what I mean but recently I found out his other account on instagram, and saw he had highlights of her , i go through his following to see the girl and check that she’s actually 20…maybe their relationship is complicated bc we are both 17 (we are on and off)

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4 mo

I forgot to add also add they only have a highlight pic of Valentine’s Day

[Anonymous]

Some individuals enjoy the risk and excitement of a secret connection. The fact that he has a separate account or hides his highlights suggests he is intentionally keeping his lives compartmentalized to avoid accountability.

Having a separate Instagram account to hide a relationship is a major red flag. It shows he wants to appear single or available to others while maintaining his primary relationship.

If he only texts you boldly but hides you from his public life, he is prioritizing his own needs for attention over your feelings or a genuine connection.

Stay protected.

[slatyb]

He wants to be with you instead of her, but he's going to string her along until he meets a woman he really wants. That's just mean. Don't get involved.

[Nikki1989]

Impossible to say without knowing what is talking to you about. It could be totally innocent. Men talk to me every day, but it is just friendly banter.

[Staximus]

Why do you want to be his second choice? Have more self-respect than that

[Jeff51]

Maybe he wants more or maybe he wants more than 1 girlfriend. Ask him.

[In_Trance]

Ask his girlfriend why