Is it weird that my boyfriend constantly texts another girl?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has been texting a girl from his classes that he met maybe a couple of months ago. I would say texting other girls is okay, except they've been texting each other all day for almost a whole week. I can see this constant texting continuing as well. To my knowledge, there is no flirting in the texting. The girl usually initiates the texting, but then the texting goes on the whole day sometimes until 2 or 3 AM. My boyfriend has never really been addicted to texting before which is why the behavior seems so weird to me. I told my boyfriend I feel weird about this amount of texting and he just turns it around on me and says I'm not letting him have any friends. This is so not the case, because I don't think you need to text people ALL DAY in order to have friends. He says they are just friends and he is not interested in her, and I want to trust this so much but I just have this feeling that I can't. The girl also constantly asks him if his girlfriend is okay with them hanging out every time they do something together (study or get something to eat). I find this odd because she has never tried to get to know me, and she still texted him constantly when she knew my boyfriend and I were fighting over them hanging out and texting. If she was actually concerned you'd think she would've at least lessened the amount of texting during that time.

[JayJay88]

When any girl see's her boyfriend always texting on his phone it is always natural to become a little suspicious. Any good girlfriend would. Nobody would want their boyfriend talking to another girl. But these are the things you have to think about, ever since this back and forth texting begun has it resulted in him

Having a sudden changes in schedule.

Him being emotionally distant

Spending less time with you

What does your guts instinct tell you. I mean me personally would definitely think something is not right here, the only time girls and guys text each other like this. going by what you said all day sometimes till 2am or 3am is what I know as the "honey moon" period. From my teenage years and even early adult life to be when you first start developing feelings for someone or when you first start dating.

I am not saying they are dating yet, but I am simply saying feelings may be starting to develop between them, it happens. Think about the things I mentioned earlier are these things happening? I strongly suggest you talk to him, don't sweep this under the carpet, maybe talk to her. He could be telling her a number of lies, guys do this so don't start blaming her. Guys sometimes tell girls there is problems in their relationships just to get closer to the girl, I am just giving you the possibilities. You really need to talk to him, if you don't feel comfortable you have the right to walk away from the relationship (that is the drastic measure) if you have to live with these un answered questions in your mind after attempting to resolve this.

As his girlfriend you have the right to have all the unanswered questions in your mind, don't let him manipulate you or make you feel guitly for wanting to know, this on his part is very weak.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

I have the same dilemma. My boyfriend started a new job and he works with one woman and a male supervisor. The boss leaves for several hours a day. So many times it's just the two of them unless a lot of customers come in. He recently was asked to work on a Sunday with just the boss. She had the day off. I was looking over our cell phone bill and thought the number of texts looked really high. I discovered he had texted her for 12 hrs straight in which a couple pictures were also exchanged. I should also mention we are in different states. He's moving to my state in 6 months. He swears he loves me and only me and can't wait to be here. We've had some other instances where I thought something funny was going on but he always comes up with an answer and a ton of sweet talk that keeps me hanging in there. Right now I'm feeling fed up enough to end it but I also still love him so much. Trying to get up the nerve to yank off the bandage and get it over with. I know if I confront him there will be some lame story and a bunch of schmoozing to get me happy again. I'm thinking of mailing the text logs to both him and her and saying WTF?

[Firefly007]

Personally, I would definitely have a problem with this. I am not controlling at all, I prefer my boyfriend to hang out with certain female friends without me because I trust him and I don't get along with them. But I would have a problem if our relationship started suffering because he was texting another girl CONSTANTLY. You're right. Being friends doesn't involve 24/7 communication. And if he's turning it around on you, that's worse. You are not doing anything wrong, and he's making you feel guily for it. If he's not willing to listen to your completely reasonable concerns, he's not treating you right. It's hard for anyone outside of your particular relationship to give good advice, since I don't know your dynamics, but in my opinion, I would try again to tell him it bothered me without accusing him of anything. If it didn't stop after that, I'd consider moving on. But keep in mind, it's just my opinion. Good luck and best wishes!

[reflex]

I'd go with your gut feeling specially if he's acting out of the ordinary.he might be telling you the truth though so you don't wanna go pyscho bitch on him

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[jimmidiggincats]

NO, NO, NO! It is definitely not alright he is constantly texting some random girl in his class, especially ALL DAY! I've seen this and trust me she doesn't care, most people don't concern themselves with things that don't concern them. And if he cared for the relationship you two have and the feelings you've communicated to him, he would have toned it down.

The way I see it, the girl doesn't give a damn and the guy is being an insensitive douche. The only question I see at hand is, "What am I going to do with this?" And go from there.

But I do wish the best for you, girlie. :D

[Angieeebabieee]

Personally the convos should be professional and remain that way. I'm my boyfriend's girl- friend.. why the fuck. does he need more? If so gtfo of here. People might say that's toxic i say those are my standards. When I love a man he's the only one out there for me. I cut off everyman and damn sure don't give them reason to think they even have a chance with me. I broke up with my boyfriend when I found him texting other women. Had he seen me doing the same he would have been pissed and left me like I did. If it's not cool with you tell him. Put his ass in check, not doing it is giving him the permission to do so. I guess are. you together for fun or for serious

[sweet_18]

Yeah this is a problem. Don't let him turn it around on you. It's not right because it's a girl he's texting all day. If it were a guy then it would be ok.

If he refuses to stop and listen to your needs, then you need to end the relationship.

[Taltos]

It's not weird...it's worrisome.