Are Russian men naturally more chivalrous and assertive than others?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

After the first date which ended with a kiss, my Russian date wants to fly me to Jeju or Bali with him… Why are some guys so assertive? And on the other hand, my German date is slow, he’s texting me and has clearly told me he wants something serious and looking forward to seeing me again as soon as he’s back from his business trip, but he doesn’t seem as infatuated as this Russian guy is. Yet I like that German one more.

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2 mo

He’s crazy! He’s biting the tickets already!!!

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2 mo

He texts me that he misses me.

[Cyfris]

So russian men pride themselves on being traditional in the ways you speak. They are also prone to in my experience wearing a gold chain and fur coat out with aligator shoes and then go home to a tar paper shack with no power. Surely more likely to defend your honor and protect you from a wolf attack then most but the ones I knew in Calgary were hard to trust and as full of shit as they were strong. Not sure how my experience with the small number I knew compares to the world though I doubt it is a fair assessment. Something tells me you don't leave Russia for Canada if you fit in at home.

[Anonymous]

Honestly eastern European men are the last real European men.

I was in nightclub last year and got surrounded by a group of Pakistani men who surrounded me so no one else could see while others gropped at me, it was only the Russian guys in the club that did anything.

Was an incident where I live with Pakistani grooming gangs targeted two Russian girls and their English friends. They hid out in a library until the police arrived and police did nothing. Next day 20 Russian men arrived and beat the Pakistanis up and down the street hospitalising 3. The Pakistanis went to the police and a week later another 20 Russians arrived and beat them up again.

[Opinion Owner]

I've seen similar stuff with polish and Hungarian men.

[AngryCarl3]

None of this really happened, did it?

[Opinion Owner]

@AngryCarl3 it did. Serious problem with Muslim rape gangs in the UK.

[AngryCarl3]

@Opinion Owner I'm calling bs. You ever even been in UK?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

@AngryCarl3 who even goes at the club when underage?

[Shrimpenjoyer]

You are underage, how come you were at the club?

[Opinion Owner]

@Shrimpenjoyer everyone goes to clubs underage in the uk, especially girls. Also the age is 18 to drink alcohol.

[Opinion Owner]

@AngryCarl3 of course I've been to the uk. This is what's going on in Rochdale, Rotherham, Manchester, briminghamstan, Londonistan

[Shrimpenjoyer]

If you go to pubs and get drunk there before you are even 18, you have a nationwide problem.

[Opinion Owner]

@Shrimpenjoyer we aren't going to get drunk. Thats what men do.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

And what men do when they are drunk?

[Opinion Owner]

@Shrimpenjoyer thing is muslims dont drink and generally non muslim men dont get together in gangs of 5-30 to sexually assault women after mosque with their sons, fathers, cousins, uncles, brothers etc

[Unycorn]

He knows your passport ID? As far as I know you need a passport ID to book a flight.

Yes it seems nice. But he will expect anything from you for the trip. Are you willing to give yourself to him? Money is not everything but without money it is also difficult XD.

But do not let him buy you.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He’s much younger than me. And I’ve been invited to far better places and not gone. I just think he’s cute and that’s why I contemplated the idea of going…

However after the initial dopamine spike from the date, changed my mind.

[Unycorn]

What do you think why he wants to have you?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Probably because I am someone you can make great memories with. And he knows it because we had a fantastic first date.

[Unycorn]

Why do you want him?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He’s cute. Has pretty eyes. And a nice assertive and a masculine personality. Also very chivalrous… Howveer, I am not going there anymore

[Unycorn]

Where do you live?

[slatyb]

The Russian guy sounds creepy. You would be crazy to travel with him.

[Alex757]

Agreed!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@Alex757 Maybe he just likes me a lot? But I am not going to go.

[slatyb]

If you are traveling to meet someone new, you travel alone, have your own lodging, and meet him in public places.

[Alex757]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 YOU are a girl in a mans world, not every mans intentions are pure & right. But you do YOU.

[NathanDavis]

assertiveness?

I guess it depends... on where are they walking onto, no?

Ukraine... or the soccer fields, lol

[Alex757]

You don’t know this russian guy at all, & he wants to fly you somewhere? Thats sus to me sister! Please be careful!

[Still-alive]

Judging by how they acted in Ukraine nope lol

[Grond21]

Infatuation will only get you so far. But a deep connection on values with a real friendship is priceless

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

The German one is busy, I texted him today, but hasn’t replied me yet. But he chatted with me the past two days after date. I know he’s on a business trip but I am trying not to worry.

[Grond21]

I would definitely not worry. He's been very clear in his communication so far and has given you no reason to think that he wouldn't keep doing so.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He said he left his phone at the hotel while on negotiations and he returned back and texted me. I’m happy , he also sent me photos from his negotiations. Gosh, he looks fancy!

[Grond21]

Ooh, that is sweet! See, he didn't ghost you

[MrChinaski]

Errrr... buying tickets already? Tread carefully.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He is 24 and really likes me :)

[CaptainSmartass]

Not if Putler's anything to go by. He's a major fairy, and the commander of the Pansy-corps...

Simples...

[Bklynbadboy12]

This is why women have such a hard time with dating cause y'all get into your feelings and you see what you want to see and completely lose touch with reality

[Unycorn]

It is easier to see what you believe there is. Don't we all do this?

[AngryCarl3]

They have to be assertive to survive in Russia. Whether they're chivalrous, I don't know.

[TallAnon]

From what I know they're either deserters, dead or soon to be dead.

[msc545]

No, but apparently they're really good at love bombing.

[msc545]

This is because he wants to have sex with you, and for no other reason. Your naivete is going to get you into a lot of trouble one day.

[jahaims]

More like drunk wife beaters

[Anonymous]

He will sell you to a brothel.

[Unycorn]

That is the worst case. Maybe he only wants to have a nice time... yes but you should always be prepared. Today I saw in the news that a woman got to know a man and he made her a who*e and forced to gove her body to other men for money. Yes. All this can happen. You never know. I do not know what I would do because I don't know those men or the opinion owner. Possible but how much is the risk of what you wrote? I dont know.

[Unycorn]

The woman in the news wrote a book about her life and what happened.