If you had to describe your type using only 3 traits… what would they be?

[7Phoenix7]

People say “I don’t have a type”… until they actually think about it.

If you had to describe your type using only three traits, what would they be?

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[LaFemmeFatale_1]

1st boyfriend Chinese - Exotic and very handsome 6’2 , athletic (sounds cringe but I called him my Amur tiger, his hotness was too deadly.) Ambitious and talented and masculine.

2nd boyfriend Italian American - Curly, handsome 6 ft 3, athletic, he had kind eyes, very manly, wise and successful. Very masculine and dominant.

My current date German - Blond, blue eyed, slim (This was my type in my teens) 6 ft 3, a pretty boy but family oriented and interesting, dominant

I guess they all were totally different phenotypes, just sharing height difference with me, all masculine, dominant and handsome.

However I’ve dated guys shorter too. I am sorry if I do hurt anyone’s feelings by my history of dating tall guys. It’s just I love the contrast. But I do date shorter guys too and actually one of the most assertive ones I’ve met is 5 ft 9.

Through the years, I learn to pay less attention to the looks and more to how a man makes me feel… I guess we learn and grow.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Also I am kind of provocative sometimes as you might have noticed, I do well with men who see it as a fun little challenge and play along dominantly , instead of feeling insecure and getting offended by it. That’s probably my type.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What’s your type?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh you said only three traits! 🙈

[7Phoenix7]

Ahhh! You look gorgeous in your pfp ✨

Yes! I did notice the similarity in height lol and to be honest… I don’t discriminate against short guys either but I do find myself attracted to tall, masculine, and dominant guys.

And yes I noticed, you use your femininity to lure them in and wrap them around your finger I love it…

I’d probably have to pick emotional intelligence, great sense of humor because really love to laugh, and confidence… someone who knows who they are and not insecure.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thank you 💕

I kind of always thought we would have a similar taste!

Short guys can be dominant too, my brother is 5’11. He’s the only man I’ve ever managed to fully rely on and my best friend in the worlds And he’s so super masculine and all. So I am trying not to have those height prejudices anymore and that Russian guy I went on a date with I think was 5 ft 9.

For taller guys, I guess me being 5 ft 2, I kind of have a soft spot for the opposites. There’s just something hot about it. And especially with them liking us so much haha

I remember you are my height too, right?

Hehe, as for the third paragraph, it made me smile! A game recognizes a game! 😎😏 I think we’d get along in real life :) You and I.

Agree with emotional intelligence, there’s something so attractive with a man knowing why you do things and understanding you and working things out along with you, instead of just judging you or getting all insecure.

How’s your romantic life going on? I remember in the past, but hope all’s been going great the past 2 years. I used to root for you in my heart :)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Shorter guys tend to blame us for having a preference, in truth taller guys have just as much of a strong preference for us, don’t they?

They love to lovingly tease you about our height and they just love us!

But at this point I have dated so many tall guys they don’t feel that tall anymore! Don’t you ever feel like that? 😁🙈

[7Phoenix7]

Aw… that actually made me smile 🥹 I didn’t know you were rooting for me like that.

And yeah, we are the same height lol… so I get what you mean. There is something about that contrast lol. it definitely has its effect 😁

But I feel you on what you said earlier too… over time it becomes less about how they look and more about how they handle you…. Yes I think over time that’s what really stands out.

[7Phoenix7]

And haha… my romantic life lately? That’s actually a whole conversation on its own… I might have to turn that into a post tomorrow because there’s a lot I could say 😄

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You should tag me there so that I don’t miss it haha

[7Phoenix7]

I will 😉

[Simslover92]

-Intelligence because I'm always looking to learn more.

-Quirky because the person is being authentically themselves however weird that may be.

-Humorous because I like a good laugh every now and then.

[7Phoenix7]

Intelligence, quirky, and humorous… that’s a fun combo. Life would never get boring with someone like that

[Simslover92]

Lol right it wouldn't

[ohsheeT]

There's no way I could do that if I did each word would be as long as

supercalisticialidocious

Just because every word ties into something else that ties into something else it's like the five love languages I'm all five of them because they all work hand in hand you have to be able to flow with them because they all happen at the same time
okay let me try lol

Nope can't do it as soon as I think one there's another one that goes into another one that goes into another one that all have to be together to make one

Okay I'm just going to go with

Loving loyal and real

Now take them in times of them by 10: in every direction possible and those would be the words I would use whatever they end up being see I forgot I needed the word happy in there too and naughty and Central and best friend and caring and giving and creative and funny just me I guess LOL oh that's four words

[HawkPerception]

Curious. I'm always going down rabbit hole after rabbit hole when I'm interested in anything.

Considerate. Everything I say or do is usually based on others in mind. I can be blunt sometimes though, but for the most part I always try to be as helpful and supportive as I can.

Introspective. I'm always very critical of everything I say and do and always honest with who I am, trying to always understand what makes me tick and how I can create a life that aligns with who I am.

ChatGPT said these 3: Vision-driven, aesthetic-intelligent, and hyper-reflective. It went into a lot of detail that I won't go into

[HawkPerception]

I read the question wrong lmaooo... I thought it was asking about ourselves 🤣

[HawkPerception]

The interesting thing is, I don't think it's far off from what my type is though. Being curious, considerate, and introspective are all traits I value in a partner.

But if I had to change it, the top 3 traits would be honest, empathetic, and easygoing.

[7Phoenix7]

Cool… cool.

And yea I wasn’t really specific so some people thought I was asking them about themselves. It makes sense lol

[VIVANT]

Inquisitive, structured, and discerning with it consistently undefeated magnitude of typos.

[VIVANT]

“Inquisitive, structured, and discerning with an arguably, undefeated, magnitude of typos “

No, no no consistently is a weak option logically in this context because consistently while not exactly trait itself is too trait adjacent, and it doesn’t accord with the rules of a limit of three traits…, I’m too accustomed to being able to edit things and now here I’m stuck with accepting what’s there, which is extremely uncomfortable—, but nothing can stop me from adding a correction 🤷🏻‍♀️

All right, I’m at relative peace. good bight.

[VIVANT]

… yes I see the typo. No, it was not intentionally illustrative. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[7Phoenix7]

😂😂 love this

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Good thing you added "discerning" at the end because inquisitive and structured felt like you were attracted to crusaders.

[Twodogs0525]

First and foremost, they do have to be of the female persuasion.

I am also very attracted to feminine women

Finally, I prefer they have a record free of violent felony convictions.

Other than that, I can work with most traits.

[7Phoenix7]

Loll

[CalmUntilAbused]

• Oujodere
• Kūdere
• Dandere

Oh, these are anime personality types, I guess... Well, let's expand the first one on the list:

• Ladylike
• Righteous
• Caring

Yeah, that's about it. Now don't mind me as I get myself hit by a truck - there is no way I find a woman my age who is like that in this reality, after all. 😄

[7Phoenix7]

I’m sure there are women your age like that lol…

[CalmUntilAbused]

@7Phoenix7 You might be correct. However, to get to them through the minefield of those whose only wish is to hurt any men who initiates any contact with them might be too risky without an informed guide.

[bobalife]

#1 Genuine kindness 🌟
#2 Same wavelength as ambitious as me or more. (Tied between someone who can make me laugh and laugh with me🥲)
#3 Emotionally Supportive💝


It’s a little hard to not say the obvious (funny, loyal, charming, good communicator, or honest) as that’s supposed to be a good basic foundation and qualities. Then, choosing top 3 that typically attracts me to someone.

[Zack-Bann]

Ambitious


Genuine


Kind


I think these 3 encapsulate the main things that can leave me breathless when I meet a woman


And they’re intertwined.
If she’s one without the others it won’t be as attractive
They balance each other out

[OneViewpoint]

I literally don't have a type. I 'm amazed by the range of different women I'm attracted to as far as looks go. A petite blonde or tall brunette or a curly redhead could all send me. White, Black, Asian, or Indian. Thin and fit or a little more soft curves. Hot business look or cute girl next door or a schoolteacher. So I'll stay away from looks and say...

• Intelligent.
• Fun.
• Great sense of style.

[RandomGirl42]

Awesome! Awesome! And more Awesome! Of course, that's prolly not the same 3 traits you'd get if you asked my therapist or parents or anyone else who knows me. 😳

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao what about your girlfriend. What 3 traits does she have that you like the most?

[RandomGirl42]

Lol! I so totally misread your original question this morning. I should never G@G before coffee! 🤣
Oh, she is awesome in so many ways, so very smart and such a deadpan sense of humor. She knows how to just calmly keep me grounded and bring me back to earth when I start running around yelling how awesome I think I am! 🤣

[7Phoenix7]

Nah I wasn’t specific enough lol a lot of others gave the same response haha.

Your girlfriend sounds awesome indeed

[queenofcardio]

I'm attracted to men that are disciplined, empathetic and joyful.

So many other traits too but these are high on my list.

[7Phoenix7]

Yep.. that’s a good starter list

[queenofcardio]

I should've added funny. I'm very attracted to funny people 😄

[Still-alive]

Ill keep up the laughs ;)

[7Phoenix7]

Me too I love a great sense of humor lol

[queenofcardio]

@7Phoenix7 yes it's the best

[queenofcardio]

@Still-alive fo real though , you're actually funny. Great distraction while I'm getting over this stupid cold 😪

[Still-alive]

Fo sho lol

[queenofcardio]

@Still-alive apparently, I'm not funny lol. 😐

[Still-alive]

That whole situation with me you and @Maybe_Maybe_not yesterday was pretty funny haha

i think you got a good funny bone. maybe lean into it a bit more :P

[7Phoenix7]

I think you’re funny lol @queenofcardio

[queenofcardio]

I'm trying lol @7Phoenix7

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I also think your tries work @queenofcardio

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

My type, in 3 traits:

• Convoluted
• Quirky
• Balanced

[7Phoenix7]

Sounds like you lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

... Actually, you're probably right 😂

[MikeMcMansion]

Convolutedly balanced…🤔 well thats all of em

[exitseven]

I do not have a type. I guess I became who I am by being bullied all through grade school, becoming a fitness enthusiast and marathon runner, basic training in the Air Force and getting married and raising a family. /there is nobody like me.

[REDBRA36c]

A cross-cultural conservative biblical Christian female woman.
Somewhat of a feminine tomboy, not afraid to get dirty outside the kitchen.
Has a freely voluntary hospitable willingness character.

[Still-alive]

Empathetic

Good communicator

Good sense of humor

[7Phoenix7]

Two of those are on my list lol

[Still-alive]

Hmmm the first two? Wait you said you like a sense of humor too so 🤔

[7Phoenix7]

The first and the third haha

[queenofcardio]

I'm all 3 . Boo yah !

[Still-alive]

oh i see. yeah communication is at the top for me due to past relationships lol. since you're infj i got a feeling you might know how to do it well :)

[Still-alive]

@queenofcardio yup you got me wrapped around your finger babe hehe ;)

[Still-alive]

sense of humor might be a bit ambiguous but when i say that i mean all the above of the following: they 1. find me funny 2. are funny themselves 3. find similar things to me that are funny. so yeah lol

[7Phoenix7]

Yes I've dealt with that too… it sucks when your partner isn’t really good at communicating when there's conflict… that’s the worst

[Still-alive]

oh yeah and then if you're dating avoidant types you gotta deal with them going off and needing space. it can be torture especially if you were an anxious type like i was.

so i need communication for my relationships to work well

[midnightmoon05]

driven, funny, ambious, open- minded, kind, easy going, etc. ... i got one... my hubby

[Apulu_backagain]

Patience, maturity, honesty.

[7Phoenix7]

Are there many mature guys your age? lol

[Apulu_backagain]

😭 that's the problem. You take out sex and violence and they have nothing to talk about.

[Abbycado]

Witty, smart, insatiable. Tsss 🔥

[7Phoenix7]

That’s definitely you… and I read it out loud with the sound effect lol

[Abbycado]

Nailed you.

[Abbycado]

**it

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao 🤣

[itsannalee]

Rich, tall and handsome.

[Jordi2525]

Could you really marry a eunuch?

[7Phoenix7]

@itsannalee you must be describing your man haha

[Jordi2525]

I am, but then if he's handsome, tall, rich, treats you well, but he's a eunuch, would you marry him?

[itsannalee]

@7Phoenix7 lol yes, i was describing my husband 😂 he is 6’11, businessman, bearded and wear black 😂

[Ms_Facesitter]

Someone like me ;)

[7Phoenix7]

Love how you only used three words too 😄

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yaaaa it's so difficult to describe a type in three words, it's not fair :(

Kind
Introvert
Likeminded (my first point)

[7Phoenix7]

I didn’t know u were an introvert. I figured you were the opposite

[Ms_Facesitter]

Oh no, I don't have much of a social battery and I prefer peace and quiet. But with the right person, there is no such thing as a social battery <3

[7Phoenix7]

I can definitely relate to that as an introvert myself

[Anonymous]

Just three traits?

She should be:

Dominant, assertive, self-confident.

[MrChinaski]

Strong, vulnerable, fun.

[MrChinaski]

@7Phoenix7 And yours?

[MrChinaski]

I could probably say: Determined, genuine, fiery. Clarifies a little.

See what I've done there? Snuck in 6 traits pretending it was only 3...

[7Phoenix7]

I like that list although you found a loophole lol

I’d say emotionally intelligent, confident, good sense of humor.

[MrChinaski]

So, I saw you around and let me just say your profile pic, whoa, you know what I'm saying right. Damn. I mean it's not as good as the one you had April 11, 2019 .. do you remember the green sweater, still I guess you were younger then. So I was thinking, if you weren't busy, like if it wasn't too much trouble that I might get your phone numb... did you know 7 in binary is 111, most people don't know that. Ummm...

Something like that, then?

[MikeMcMansion]

Helvetica, black, 14 pt.

[7Phoenix7]

Not Comic Sans? Standards are high I like it lol

Very creative answer

[Jennz6]

Submissive, open minded and beautiful.

[Jennz6]

@7Phoenix7 I was told that I am “Pretty” but I’m not trying to be rude

[7Phoenix7]

Nothing rude about that 🙂

[Jennz6]

@7Phoenix7
I don’t think I should have said that, it sounds too sassy

[7Phoenix7]

You can be sassy 💁‍♀️ lol

[Jennz6]

@7Phoenix7
Okay thank you for your support

[msc545]

Intelligent intense, curious

[7Phoenix7]

Those are good picks! Especially when put together…

[msc545]

Thank you very much.

[InknKink]

Calm, playful, curious.

[MotherEarth2020]

Independent

Leadership

Fighter

[sage2021]

Spiritual, emotionally intelligent, and loving.

[thegreenyogi]

Strong, driven, loving.

[thegreenyogi]

If you're referring to physical traits: Tall, athletic, physically and mentally strong.

[Spencer10]

Confident. Intelligent. Respectful.

[Shiprex]

Loyal, honest and fun

[Seangreen]

respectful, caring, employed

[AydenHazor]

Kind, loving, compassionate

[aboredman]

Fun, logical and sexy

[beefcakebradybatson]

Handsome, bright and candid.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Latina, kind and smart.

[TallAnon]

Cheerful, loyal, spicy

[msg321]

Compassionate, honest, intelligence

[dragoblack]

Passionate, nerdy, petite

[Sunnyrjs]

Positive, empathetic and cheerful.

[Anonymous]

Dainty, secretly wild, and with a southern accent

[DevilishDanni]

Those sound a little superficial though, hopefully she has some other traits you like that aren't...