What made you suddenly go from not attracted to someone to thinking they’re hot?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

Does not happen with me. I was never really attracted physically to a person, regardless of that person's body temperature.

In order for me to find attraction, I would need to interact with them on an intellectual basis for at least 2 years to find out their character and personality. Only then could I say that there is some intellectual attraction.

I would never lower myself to be solely attracted physically to a person because the looks of a person has never been what I am seeking in another person. I don't care whether they are short and chubby or not. To me, the only things that count are the character and personality. Nothing else.

[DishLady]

Our mutual effect on one another can be very appealing.

[Anonymous]

Lol. Maybe they had on a good outfit or an outfit that flattered her figure. That's what is guys would say maybe - an otherwise plain duckling becomes a swan - look some women can fool you with their everyday looks versus "holy hell they dress nice to a Ball when they want to lol 👗" lol

Ah well - not that I've been to any luxury shindigs lately 🫠🫠🫠🥲

[NathanDavis]

nothing...

if they are hot, then they're just hot... regardless of whether or not I am attracted to them

those are two different things... lol

[nolabels]

That's never happened to me.
I don't think it ever could.

[Nikki1989]

It doesn't work that way.