I need a lot of friends and a beautiful girlfriend. Germany or USA is a better choice for this?

[Nihilist__]

[SueShe]

None really. There is already such a large Turkish community in Germany, mainly in the Berlin area, that there is a start of resentment against male Turkish citizens because of past events that happened and that were directed at women living in Germany.

Right now, I would certainly not recommend the US since they are making themselves enemies all over the world.

You are much better off staying in Turkey where you can meet women that think like you, that are of the same ethnicity and that will not talk back to you like a German or US girl would. German and US girls are not used to being slaves and that would only create conflicts.

[Nihilist__]

I’m someone who respects women, and I’d even want a dynamic in my relationship where the woman is dominant. My only wish is for a conscious, self-aware woman to like me. But if I don’t have a chance in either country, I guess I’ll end up alone—because in Turkey, women also seem closed off to relationships.

[SueShe]

There are plenty of other countries, outside of the EU or the US and Canada to try your luck.

[Nihilist__]

But why would i go there. I want a good, rich country

[SueShe]

Ah, you want money and beautiful women. Would that make you happier? Money is not everything and a beautiful woman can be a nasty woman. You are better off finding someone in Turkey. How about South America or Asia?

[Anonymous]

Neither. Stay where you are you have no chance in either country. Maybe try Africa or Thailand or something.

[Nihilist__]

Whay are u that mean?

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous How do you know what country he's in?

[capriVib]

You could do Erasmus for this, travel for six months and come back. But to be honest, going abroad just for friends or a girlfriend isn't worth it. There is a huge prejudice against Turkish men who stick to their own culture, religion, or traditions (like having a beard, coffeehouse culture, or speaking loudly).

​If you're going for a job or your career, then I’d say go for it. Otherwise, going there just to find a girlfriend or friends would be the worst choice you could make. Don't waste your time with such nonsense.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

"I need a lot of friends"
- Nihilist

This is not how nihilism works.

So, reading philosophy is a better choice to achieve your goals.

[HighValue]

American women are mostly a bad option. Also, lots of people in the USA are untrustworthy and will mess over you if it benefits them so be careful who you trust.

[Abbycado]

US isn't a good choice. They will just deport you. That is what happens anymore to even citizens.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Germany. Most American broads are FREAKIN' FAT !!!

[DryGermanGuy]

Not Germany. Murrica number one!!!

[Zionne]

those are pretty good options

[AngryCarl3]

Not really, no.

[StoonMan]

Türkiye sjsjs , USA girl beautiful