Would you date someone now who was ashamed to ask you out in high school?

[Anonymous]

So they secretly liked you in highschool but too embarrassed to date you because you were different

Yes I would

No i wouldn't

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t, but I think anyone who really felt that way about me back in high school would be reluctant to admit they were ashamed because they would be afraid of messing up their chances with me now. So it’s unlikely I would ever find out that information.

[Asker]

To me it kind of obvious... its just weird how they want to date you out of highschool but during highschool they didn't?

[Asker]

It had to be because they were ashamed

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe. Or they just clicked with you when you were both older and more mature.

But yeah. I wouldn’t let what you’re talking about bother me unless they confessed to it or I heard it from a really good reliable friend that they were ashamed in high school.

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[CriminallyInsane]

Everyone's pretty immature in high school, so I wouldn't completely say no because of that. He seems ok with whatever you're talking about now? Do you want to date him? The high school version you remember isn't the one who you'd be dating now.

[Tomislav7]

Id be flattered and possibly consider it depending on where i am in life. Yeeeears ago i did text a girl from hs and she asked me why i never said anything. Crazy to think of all the missed opportunities because i was thinking i was never good enough

[NathanDavis]

did I understand you correctly?

I'm pretty much the same I was in high-school lol... I didn't really change much

so if they were embarrassed to be with me back then... they would still be embarrassed today, lmfao

[Nikki1989]

Nope, high school is ancient history.

[HighValue]

No. I don't like most women that are near my age, even back then. I have nothing in common with most of them, and their morals are often terrible.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

I mean... how different are we talking?

Did he not want to ask you out because you weren't popular? Or did he not want to ask you out because you were that weird girl who was always talking about serial killers?

[Anonymous]

Maybe. It depends if my questionable actions caused that.

[Anonymous]

Of course not.😆

Was she dumb enough to say that?

[Alex-Snow]

I would. It might be fun

[ZameerAnsari91]

Why not, it's fine to me

[Tungi]

I am taken

[MetinBey]

depends