Did using a cheating partner for experience actually help my dating life?

[Anonymous]

I asked a bit more than a year ago if I should do this, and I chose to do it. Now it’s finished.

The short version is that I’m a late bloomer who lost it at 29, and shortly after I learned the woman I was with was cheating. So I spent a year with her, learning how to fuck properly before ditching her…… for someone who does not CHEAT.

I mean, I’m not inexperienced asf now. Now that I have a bit of history I might do better. Will this whole plan I had work, and her part in this is done? Or should’ve I stayed longer than this?

[HollyK21]

I mean sure it will help your experience in bed but you’ve got to get there first. If you think it’s helped with your confidence as well then that’s a plus, but it doesn’t always determine whether or not you’ll click with a woman.

[Asker]

It’s already over between us. I’ve been with her for a year and left her two days ago.

was that year long enough?

[HollyK21]

Long enough for what?

[Asker]

To reasonably not put off other women for lack of experience?

[HollyK21]

“I mean sure it will help your experience in bed but you’ve got to get there first.”

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Depends on how you define what your dating life is, and what you want it to be. It 100% belongs to you.

In my case, sexual experience has never been something to prioritise. It just happened organically between 16 and 18yo with girls I loved.

Looking at how my dating life happens, yours and your cynicism involved totally blows the roof lol, but then each life story is personal anyway.

[Asker]

Except I didn’t. So I gained the experience this way. Think it’ll work?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

As I said, what would work or not for you isn't my world, we have histories so different that nothing applying to me would apply to you and vice versa lol

[nomomrnice]

I owned 2 escort companies with my x and I enjoyed watching others f her tbh.
And always was up front with me on our bedroom at long term with that it's going to cheat they need to at least let me either be there or record it for me. B
Honest about it

[Nikki1989]

What a miserable existence. Clearly, you are doing everything wrong.

[Asker]

“What a miserable existence”

For her, she thought she was getting an extra $55,000 yearly. Guess she figured wrong.

[In_Trance]

This is the most retarded question I've read this week

[Jeff51]

Up to you. How is it working for you?

[Asker]

No clue it’s been two days