Men, how do you actually know you’ve found “the one”?

[Anonymous]

Is there a such thing.. is it instant.. does it take awhile

[ohsheeT]

You find something beautiful it makes you happy you make them happy everything is blooming everything is just beautiful and that's because you share those moments day in and day out and it grows stronger because you both want something but then once you get it you become content and you just kind of start slacking you start staying home and you don't build things anymore you don't work on things anymore and that's when things go downhill

When you find something that you like Someone that you like You have to work on it each and every day You have to make it better as it makes you better And then you grow together If one person stops growing Then things are not going to work out somewhere down the road

So that day that you feel all that love within and you think that you found the right person you might have but what are you willing to do to keep that person to keep growing with that person that's what it's all about

[Finchie40]

When they stand by you not matter what you are going through in life , someone that truly loves you will choose you like you choose them , making each other your top priority , without that, you really don’t have anything with someone whatsoever

[Marissa4]

When you have no problem when you dressed at your best. They still choose you. And when we cuddle a sleep while we drool. And still choice you.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

There is such a thing because I'm saying so, because "the one" is a personal notion.

I have been with several "the one" actually, depending on how "the one" was defined for me at different times.

It did take me a while to realize it, each time.

[MrChinaski]

Love snowballs. One minute you barely no someone. The next you are sharing things sheepishly. Then you can't stop thinking about them.

To answer your question directly, no the is not 'the one'. I know pretty quickly when I have found 'a one'.

[Anonymous]

I've only felt that way about one girl. I always found her attractive, but it definitely snowballed. She was always extremely alluring to me. I didn't realize how bad I has it for her until it was too late. It took me longer than it should have to identify my feelings, as they were foreign.

[Anonymous]

Time. You can never really know for certain. But this is why you bring all your experience with women to bear when vetting a woman. Because odds are the longer you drag it out the greater she's going to drop her guard (if only for a second) and show you who she REALLY IS. Then it's just like a loose string. You pull on it to her entire charade is exposed or until she just decides to eject.

[ThaCuriousGuy007]

It takes ages but it makes you feel so good inside that this is THE ONE and no one else will do

[molonski2]

In reality it would take time , life is more than a lustful glance , a different thing altogether.

[jamesgoldman]

I'm going to say it was instant with my first girlfriend, I still wish I proposed to her

[Asker]

How was it instant

[jamesgoldman]

First time I saw her, I fell for her
In Godfather 1 and the book they refer to it as the thunderclap

[Ralalala]

There is no "the one". There are many potential candidates and once you find one worth keeping you'll be happier and settling will feel natural.

Not very romantic but that's how it is.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well I'm surely not the right person to answer this question

[Anonymous]

The woman next door look

It's what every wholesome, legitimate man strives for and strides for 🎩 top hat

[Opinion Owner]

Put a ring on it 💍 lol - that type of woman ♀️ sneakers over heels

[najekim]

The potential is somewhat instant. The verification takes awhile.

[Anonymous]

Longer than expected, honestly. And then when you do, she bites you.

[rapfan107]

They get the best out of you !! You feel happy around and don't give you problems or stress you out

[DryGermanGuy]

I ask the Oracle. She will tell me. 🤔👍

[AngryCarl3]

If you don't know, you haven't found her.

[NicholasofAustralia]

Sometimes "when you know you know" I've often found a cop-out over the years - as hogwash as having a cupboard under the stairs as my mancave 😋🤭 lol "why not buy a shed or a granny flat to have a spare room" 😈

[NicholasofAustralia]

My harry potter inspired jokes - but nope, I still haven't flown the nest bird - mortgages are expensive 🫰

[NicholasofAustralia]

"you try affording a home these days" - no one ever 😜

[TonyMetal___86]

There are many who can be the one...

[Iron_Man]

Your heart will tell you

[Ivyravegirl]

I think your soul will tell you

[Zionne]

i don't know yet