What is the most unattractive thing the opposite sex can do?

[Danny_dan92]

For me it’s when girls smoke cigarettes.


I never viewed the act of smoking cigarettes as lady like/classy. Plus a smoker does not smell good, also not what comes to my mind when I think of women

[InknKink]

Leading an interaction.

This is obviously a me thing, but I immediately get turned off by women who lead and govern interactions. I can accept it as a part of daily life, but in terms of personal relations and attraction, I rile against being directed.

My entire body fights such directness from women in interpersonal relations.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Being straight up rude to me and others for no reason. It just shows a lack of class and maturity. Honestly that goes for other women too though.

Smoking is definitely up there for me too. My parents and brother smoked when I was younger and it drove me crazy to hear others commenting about me smelling like smoke even though they knew I couldn't stand it.

[Anonymous]

I think misleading someone with unclear intentions.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s a good one.

[slatyb]

Same for men and women -- the most unattractive thing is being disrespectful to others.

I agree about smoking. I watched my mother wreck herself smoking, and would never date a smoker. If I see an attractive woman, and she takes out a cigarette, poof! Attraction gone.

[Anonymous]

Cheat. An ex of mine cheated on me, we tried to work it out for the sake of our child but the woman revolted me. I had no desire for her anymore, sex was just mechanical for me. She wanted another child and I said no but she got pregnant anyhow, I left and made her get a DNA test and yes it wasn't mine, was the other guy's.

[capriVib]

Definitely the most unattractive thing a woman can do is flirt with other men while she's in a relationship with you. Even worse is cheating. I can't think of anything more unattractive than that.

[Anonymous]

I went out with a guy one time and noticed he kept looking at his own reflection in windows or when passing mirrors. I just did not like that he needed to check himself out so much. He is good looking but still. Did not tell him I would not go out with him again because of that.

[Danny_dan92]

Read that last part you wrote again

[Abbycado]

Oh god, definitely smoking. Disgusting.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah had one run in with one… lmao not pleasant

[Abbycado]

There are few things that are even close to as gross. I am shocked how many my age at school smoke.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah agreed, for me it was either that or doing OF

[Wuai201]

Sex jokes in the middle of an important moment or conversation

[BlueEyedBlondeBeauty]

I'm a woman and I agree that smoking is gross. Whether it's a man or woman smoking. I don't like alcohol or any kind of drugs either.

[BlueEyedBlondeBeauty]

Tattoos are a huge turn off too.

[jamesgoldman]

I agree with smoking and it's weird given I'm an occasional cigar smoker myself

[_Jenny_]

@Danny_dan92 you are right

[Iron_Man]

Cheat on you with other people

[Alex-Snow]

Poor hygiene and a smoker

[KostasKouvalis]

Be woke.

[DirtyOldMan777]

become feminist