"For myself, smoking cigarettes is a instant turn off."
Thank you all for making me smile. I really enjoyed this question. 😂
I think my favorites are the comments saying "undefined calfs" and "when they say no". Ahahaha 👏
"For myself, smoking cigarettes is a instant turn off."
The entitlement or the equality for benefits only kind of women.
- "I expect the man to pay on dates"
- living under my roof but giving nothing in return
- women who threaten or try to control me.
Life is too short to deal with such a person. The lady I got with recently is an angel, thank goodness. But the negativity of some women man... made me wonder at one point if it's all worth it, but of course it is when you find a likeminded person. You can't let it all be ruined by the entitled ones.
Entitlement can definitely be a deal breaker
Smart man.
Almost anything to do with modern feminism is an instant red flag. Women who don’t subscribe to that crap will of course have their own quirks. But they are more open to feedback (which feminists call “patriarchy”). They can improve themselves. They don’t try to act all defiant if they want to improve their attraction. They also respect male preferences.
For example most (but not all) western men prefer women who are smooth/shaved (armpits, legs, etc.). We know it’s a pain in the ass for women but at the same time we prefer that.
Modern feminists on the other hand believe male dating preferences is “sexism”. They are trying to force men into being attracted to hairy and/or overweight women. It doesn’t matter that guys don’t even say anything about it. If we don’t give these women romantic attention than it’s “sexism”.
Oh no! 😱
being a pussy
being dirty
being too clingy
being a dick
being shy & too introverted
bad manners (like chewing with his mouth open, farting in public)
not caring about how they look at all
not caring how people think of them at all (i want him to mainly not care but not totally not give a fuck)
having a very dirty appartement/house
Your comment made me giggle. Being a "pussy" 😆🤣👏
It’s not something that applies to all men but bad hygiene is a BIG turn off. If you don’t know how to properly wash your dick & ass, then I’m not going to sleep with you.
I agree 100%
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I dated one woman that had "back door draft" when she pulled off her undies. I would ask her to clean herself and she would get mad at me. I asked her why doesn't she clean herself properly after taking a crap? She said she is so busy in life that she often forgets.
I dated another woman that had body stench. You could only smell it if you hugged her. She believes that bathing is harmful to her skin, so she limits it to once a week.
I dated one woman that was a heavy drinker. I always paid for our meals. When we walked into a restaurant she would immediately go to the bar and get a beer, which I paid for. I told her from now on I'll pay for our meals but she has to buy her own booze. That was the end of the relationship.
I hate it when they don't even give you a chance to get to know each other. Some women believe that within two minutes she can tell if you're a good match or not.
Talking- and talking - and talking -Talking- and talking - and talking-Talking- and talking - and talking-Talking- and talking - and Talking- and talking - and Talking- and talking - and Talking- and talking - and Talking- and talking - and talking- ah you get the point.
We can't help it! We love to talk 😂💭
I wouldn't mind if some new ground was broken/added/modified, etc. but it is like a broken record - record - record - record
Party girls. I get bad hangovers, so I very rarely drink and haven't been drunk in about 4 years. So if she likes to go dancing and get trashed every weekend, I won't be there with her very often. Thats a recipe for infidelity. Its either that or I spend every Sunday writhing in bed with a migraine.
Sloppy drunks are bloody awful 😭
Rude, arrogant, princess syndrome, shouting, yelling, controlling, dominating, insulting everyone, insulting men, gold diggers. When I see girls / women with these qualities I distance myself from them. It is a biggest turn off.
I'm àttracted to sweet, submissive, feminine, kind hearted women.
Physical features: beautiful face, big boobs, curvy body, big eyes, etc.
Very detailed list!
Pretending not to be human, not farting or burping or saying you need to shit, the gross stuff makes us human if your gunna be around me you gotta learn to embrace it, just cause it’s not considered “lady like” doesn’t mean it’s not ok with me stop trying so hard
Absolutely LOVE your answer!
Why thank you 😋
Dressing sexually provocative. I. e. showing cleavage, short skirts above the knees. Shorts acceptable. Wearing no bra (Rihanna style) Excessive makeup. Fake hair.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
You might just be turned off by the female population according to your list lol 😆
@Secret6620 welcome to my life in the west.
I've emotionally checked out of all the women here. Building on my land back home, then I'll pick a local girl.
Kind regards,
DoctorSex
I really dislike it when I receive an upper decker or reverse kanga before I get the chance to pull one off. It makes me feel like I'm not on top of my game. Also when my blow up doll talks down to me. One time this happened, I put my boots with spurs on, went to town on the doll then gave it a few swift spurs while finishing all about the plastic facial area. Never heard from that doll again.
Smoking, drunks and a noncircumcised limp penis.
😂😂
Feeling like I'm talking to a wall where you try to get a conversation to get to know them and they only give 1 word answers like "yep", "nope ", or "aha" so if I feel like I'm wasting my time I just distance myself from them and reciprocate with a quick "yep, nope or aha" and the moment I start seeing someone else then I'm getting non-stop paragraphs but when they ask me why I just tell that "when you hesitate you masturbate" 😇
Always looking for sympathy for previous relationship and emotional comfort. Never taking responsibility for their previous relationship and complaining how all the guys she was with did her dirty for attention and pity from men. As well as just being really boring and not willing to grow up.
In general fouchbaggery and overtly jockish behavior.
Douchbaggery*
Giggles 😁
Smoking, poor manners, intrusive financial prospecting questions.
Manners are VERY important
Smoking cigarettes is definitely a turn off for me. I have kissed one girl that did…. it was awful / like kissing an ash tray.
I can't stand that smell. Like ashes
Smelling bad. Being one of those obnoxious basic jerks that all the flat iron hair, leggings as pants, extra short cutoffs, TikTok dance, women love for some reason. I'm gonna say it, normies. I partially hate them because I'm jealous they got to be good enough for society, but also because they're unintelligent jerks.
Guys not wearing deodorant. I notice this of middle eastern men
Oops read question wrong..
Ahahaha 😂👏
I’m kinda messed love and effort are the most important but Id consider effort on occasion over someone who is loving as dumb as that is.. dead ass ashamed of that 2.
The petty judgmentalness, especially when it comes to dating
judgmental people are bloody awful
Being bossy or controlling that will make me leave really fast.
God Bless
Being too bossy is definitely a red flag
Chain smoking and undefined calfs , that somehow really turns me off lol
Ahahaha 😂! "Undefined calfs"
Your comment is hilarious 😆
Entitlement, talks down about people, always worried about what everyone else is doing, golddigger
Good list!
Lol i know not super high standards lol but still hard to find
You make me smile 😁
Glad to hear that
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