What frustrates you the most about the opposite sex?

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emmabee11 · Accepted Answer

Men...

- Try to act too "manly" to the point they are friguid and completely unexpressive (even during sex)
- They try to push me into having sex
- They rush things far too much and think getting to know me is just THAT easy to do and that they think they can know everything about me even within a week... lol.
- They go mental on them just for rejecting them because of their insecurities and blame the bad experiences they have had with others girls on me (just maybe though i've had just as many bad experiences with guys too and that i would understand you if only you calmed down and shut up for 1 second lol).
- They assume every girl likes a guy that dresses nice and likes JLS so they dress like them (but really they aren't being themselves), so you assume i'm like other girls, that every girl is the same and that i would like you for being someone your not haaa...
- They have too many double-standards over females (and yes girls do over guys too but i'm not a girl to have any double-standards over guys), so it annoys me a tone.
- Believe in such a thing as a "friend-zone" when there is nothing wrong with being friends with each other but they treat it like it's a sin.
- When they shame other girls for expressing their sexualaity
- They act like total and complete idiots with their friends and let them influence them too much
- When they are so afraid of being honest and open with me incase some guy calls him "gay"
- They try to tell me what to wear
- Not being open-minded to explore a deeper level of themselves
- Walks away when on our period and treats us like psychos when infact we aren't always moody on our period, we can also be a lot more affectionate
- When they think a girl can't even lift something, do a so called "mans" job or even learn how to paint a wall... they treat us like we are just tooth picks.

There is more... oh yes... but these are the things that annoy me the most

bubbletrouble · Accepted Answer

A lot of them date bad girls but complain about girls liking bad guys? O. o
What's up with that hypocrisy?
Some dude actually got called out on his bullshit on here. He chose bad girls in a poll that stated bad girl vs good girl.
Then turned around and asked a question asking why girls like assholes.

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

*that they don't listen
*that they care much more about their friends that their so (and when they act like asshole in their presence)
*when they forget about your birthday
*when they put a lot of restrictions on you
*when they hit you
*when they cheat on you
*when they are not sincere

been_waiting · Accepted Answer

Guys are probably frustrated with "friend zoning" or simply not getting the girl they want, as if its a crime for a girl to not like them.  I'm frustrated with the "nice guy" shit

front2back · Accepted Answer

My only complainant with women is how many of them follow an "exception" rule or are hypocritical. My sister did it, girls in high school/college do it, and my coworkers do it. I think it's subconscious, too.

With the "exception" rule, either the girl makes special exceptions for things she's normally against/for at her will and/or tells everyone the rules and right ways to do things, except these rules and ways don't apply to her.

Examples:
"Why does she keep sleeping with random guys? She needs to stop being so easy." <-- Has slept with over 30 guys in the past year.
"My guy has to have a job, otherwise it's a deal breaker." <-- Gets jobless boyfriend 2 months later but accepts it since "he's hot and has awesome tattoos".
"Judging people on their sexual past is immature. Your number doesn't define you." *later* "Wow these virgin guys are so f**king clueless. What losers."
**Goes out with girlfriends for 5 weekends in a row, then gets mad when her boyfriend goes to his old roommate's birthday party one weekend when she wanted to spend time with him.**

I'll stop here, but I could write pages of these.

BertMacklinFBI · Accepted Answer

when they don't wanna try new fun exciting dangerous *ahem* things with me. lol

kangy · Answer

Disrespectful
Unfaithfulness
Insensitive
Overlook on details like birthday I am not expecting celebration or present but if u like someone u wld make an effort to remember her birthday.
Once they get the girl, they dont cherish her much and take her for granted

Wintersmorning · Answer

Misogyny and when they feel like women should just be cooking and cleaning and making children. Like, gtfo. I could never date someone who didn't accept the fact that I'm a feminist. I want equality, not superiority.

sammy_31 · Answer

Not being able to understand that we can't express ourselves the way we want to sometimes. We can't help but be complicated but it's predictable with guys it really is much more frustrating. Sometimes not being able to say anything is like ahhhhhh hair pulling!

Kythe · Answer

It's not really specific to men. But the most frustrating thing for me is the inability for many people to put themselves in other people's shoes, and that is especially true when it comes to the opposite gender.

I suppose that's pretty understandable -- most of us have never been the opposite gender :) But a lot of people don't even seem to try.

DamanMannn · Answer

The ones I think beautiful & physically attractive,
do not enjoy my company or have Anxiety to enjoy my company.

I apologize in advance for the insensitivity.
The ones I find physically UN-attractive, loves me.

This, I hate about opposite sex. </3 lol.

Crazyced · Answer

I don't really have problems with women in general.

But if I had to pick something. I'd have to say the blatant lack of accountability they can sometime display.

As if they were trying to simultaneously reap the benefits of being an independent adult and a vulnerable child.

Airlines22 · Answer

When you think you know more about a topic and don't even listen to the other person's view
The biggest one is when you pretend not to act tough just so a girl can win

But my gender frustrates me WAY MORE!

dreamingincake · Answer

They're so calm, blasé, and nonchalant about everything. It makes it very hard to know how they feel and what they're thinking.

Blue2 · Answer

well it can be both ways but i feel like women have more of an easier sway with it. But stringing along. hey some girls are to shy to say it but come on say you dont like the guy already. dont fuck around with his emotions. (ive seen it happen to my friends and had it happen to me once)

Arthurred · Answer

There in ability to see a males perspective because I always try to keep an open mind when it comes to other people's views, for example many females don't seem to understand that marriage generally favors them and get mad at men when they say that don't want to get married.

bobjonesies · Answer

Their complexity, how they have to repeat everything a million times when I hear them the first time, how they try to bother me when its clear that I'm in the middle of an important task, how quite a few of them think they are always smarter than me and I'm retarded, stuff like that... Those people make me mad. Not all women are like this, but A LOT are.
Ladies, if you wouldn't want to date yourself if you were a guy, please change.

AboveTheClouds · Answer

We can never understand the same feelings.
They can never get us.
We can never get them.
One thing they say, they mean the other.
One thing we hear, we think the other.

Girls Help Us Out.
Guys Help Them Out.

Ghostfanatic · Answer

They act interested one minute, then they ignore you and pretend like you don't exist the next.

Proboy421 · Answer

Nagging, not admitting they are wrong and reserving to insulting and arguing from emotion, trying to change me, playing mind games, I can go on and on. I have a 0 tolerance policy for such nonsense and I say NO to it.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Just how obsessive women are in a guys physical appearance. Sad they are so visual. We guys are more forgiving on looks. We date unattractive and average girls all the time.

And ladies don't say "put that in reverse" cause u know females are more visual.

Canterbury_Bellz · Answer

Oblivious to things going on with their friends, or people around them. Just a note, this is whatI find frustrating about the guys in my school, and the guys i know in general. Not all guys.

Alcoto12 · Answer

What frustrates me the most is when men deny having feelings and emotions to appear masculine.

Carter43 · Answer

women frustrate when they feel hat they don't need to give the truth about why they dumped you. may not deserve resolution but it does help.

MidnightSkyline · Answer

Where do I start?
When they go quiet all of a sudden and doesn't say anything
When they ignore your messages for hours on end with no explanation other than "Alone time"
When they think they can say stuff that offends females and then get away with it.

Levin · Answer

They don't seem to like me very much. :D That's bloody annoying man!

Anonymous · Answer

When guys look state at me or even look me up and down but never approach me. It makes me feel so frustrated!!! Am I unapproachable?

And also when you want to approach them but they're so sexy you want to walk away and cry

BellePepper · Answer

Men tend to be poor conversationalists. I'm interested in video games and sports and I still feel like I'm pulling teeth. Not saying ALL guys are like this but a lot seem to be

bribribear1 · Answer

I hate how they toy with your feelings even though they know exactly how you feel about them. They'll flirt with you and give you all the right signals and then completely ignore and disregard you. Then they'll see you have no interest in them and just make you like them again. It's like they don't care how much they hurt you. Also one huge thing is that they randomly text you first and flirt with you but then 100% ignore you when you text them first. What is their problem like seriously.

heatherpepperfly · Answer

I'm not saying all guys are violence, but some of them are really hot tempered and it's frustrating because they might hurt themselves or even other people.

VIsQveen · Answer

Honestly I just hate how a lot of guys feel sexual entitlement to women.

Lizzy32794 · Answer

They NEVER hear you when you are talking to them. I always have to repeat myself and I hate it.

Coolguy1928 · Answer

If you have sex with them without condom, they'll get pregnant, and you'll soon become a father. That's just scary, but I'll get to the idea of doing it someday. :\

Artistic_Soul · Answer

When they want naughty things from me when I don't know them at all. lol Not all men are like that but there's a good majority that is.

gapminder · Answer

I don't trust anything that bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die. ... lol!

Anonymous · Answer

Guys inability to communicate the truth. If you like me, great, if you don't... fine.. but don't waste my time!

miserybusiness · Answer

Their mind games. I thought women played bad mind games but heck, men are equally bad.

Klaatu51 · Answer

"how do i look with these shoes, dress, t-shirt, lipstick, etc" damn... :-(

Cam700 · Answer

Totally agreeing with these, but for me... If you don't want to talk to me, then just let me know.

Anonymous · Answer

That some guys, especially the guy I'm interested in now, are really good at not showing emotion. Whether we're having sex or just talking and hanging out, he's a blank face. A smile is rare but he'll say he's happy a lot.

I just wish guys would show some more emotion so I wouldn't be so scared to express mine

Anonymous · Answer

How much they care about appearance. You've no idea how annoying it is when she spends an hour getting ready, or wears high heels that actually hurt her, or wears summer clothes in the winter, or puts on make up, then complains about how society makes girls wear make up, despite me telling her I'd rather her not.

Amylicious · Answer

How cold hearted/emotionless they can be and the fact that they consider themselves polygamy by nature.

wethepeople87 · Answer

When a woman says one thing but means something totally different. Or when they make one decision then change their mind a couple of minutes later. WTH

JackKerouac77 · Answer

Being unable to be honest sometimes for whatever reason frustrates me about people and myself.

dE_logics · Answer

They're rude. They don't talk, are not friendly and avoid me. As a result, I don't know any single girl.

queendevi · Answer

Same things that my sex people drive me crazy  so basicly the entire human race does these things that bother me  not gender specific

MyCatHatesMee · Answer

When they lie about the stupidest shit.."why did you leave the peanut butter jar opened?" "I didn't open it!" Ok. Must of been Casper.

HappyToBeAlive · Answer

When girls dont speak their mind and would much rather keep the problem on the inside rather than trying to solve it.

Ihav2fart · Answer

When they don't put the toilet seat up. So inconsiderate!

MakeitOrDieTrying · Answer

They can't think logically and can't accept defeat.

ThatGuy98 · Answer

Girls can't admit they're wrong, especially not when arguing.. :D

Anonymous · Answer

They can never take no for an answer... no matter how many times you point it out.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like the feminist movement and how girls have ultra high standards. These things make me scared to have a female president

GlitterGirl456 · Answer

I hate that boys think it's easy to be a girl.

Anonymous · Answer

Women's arrogance, short-sightedness and unwillingness to compromise.

Anonymous · Answer

The way they flirt and try to convey they're interested in someone. The subtle bullshit doesn't help anyone

NeedingAGoodSeeing2 · Answer

That they are incapable of telling the truth

kill-switch · Answer

That women can be close minded towards men

Anonymous · Answer

They crowd up like a herd of cows so you cant pick them out easily

Anonymous · Answer

the guys that think you will kiss there feet as soon as they start flirting

TheWiseOwl · Answer

Their inability to engage their brain cells.

daydnconfused · Answer

Nothing but it depends i geuss

GlassHeart · Answer

When they dont text back...

sfsdfdsfds · Answer

Leading men on just for fun sake

Anonymous · Answer

How they brag so much.

DaGenius · Answer

The PMS is my only concern

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