Is anyone else genuinely okay with nobody finding them attractive?

[sagahsvs]

I’m a guy who is 22 and will turn 23 next month. I’m not particularly attractive, and I’m short, standing at just 5’4”. No one has ever really had a crush on me.

Last year, I met a girl and we became close, but unfortunately, she doesn’t respond to my texts anymore. That’s fine. I used to be upset that no one liked me, but I guess that’s just life.

I’m very hygienic and take good care of my grooming, but sometimes things just don’t work out. It is what it is.

[Masie]

I am not saying it is the case, but I am fine with people that don't find me attractive. I can never really tell those that don't because it isn't like they announce it.

I am just not into dating in my life at the current moment so I am perfectly happy with whatever someone thinks about me good or bad,.

[sagahsvs]

Nice, most days I am fine, some days like today it gets me down

[Masie]

I can understand that. If you are actively wanting companionship then I could see how that could be something of a bummer at times. At least you are fine most of the time.

[Anonymous]

I don't know how to answer that. Because i know there are women at least on some level that have found me attractive. The question is, to what level? And at this point i do not f***ing care what the answer is. Because everyone's 💩 stinks. I don't care how attractive you are. I know i'm a catch (but still a flawed person). And i know i'm fine with being single.

My advice to you is worry less about what women find you attractive and worry more about what you bring to the table. Because there are 4 billion women on this planet. And you only need one to see your worth. Don't worry about the other 3,999,999,999 that may be too blind to see it.👍