Is anyone else genuinely okay with nobody finding them attractive?

[sagahsvs]

I’m a guy who is 22 and will turn 23 next month. I’m not particularly attractive, and I’m short, standing at just 5’4”. No one has ever really had a crush on me.

Last year, I met a girl and we became close, but unfortunately, she doesn’t respond to my texts anymore. That’s fine. I used to be upset that no one liked me, but I guess that’s just life.

I’m very hygienic and take good care of my grooming, but sometimes things just don’t work out. It is what it is.

[Masie]

I am not saying it is the case, but I am fine with people that don't find me attractive. I can never really tell those that don't because it isn't like they announce it.

I am just not into dating in my life at the current moment so I am perfectly happy with whatever someone thinks about me good or bad,.

[sagahsvs]

Nice, most days I am fine, some days like today it gets me down

[Masie]

I can understand that. If you are actively wanting companionship then I could see how that could be something of a bummer at times. At least you are fine most of the time.