It is me or people don’t really look at attractive people?

[Anonymous]

When walking in mall or the streets I’ve seen a lot of pretty women but I notice men don’t turn their head to glance at them like most are minding their own business or they probably didn’t see them passing by especially when they are in a group and the same with women, I know people notice at attractive people but they also don’t care or don’t pay attention and minding their business what do you guys think?

[DishLady]

• (1) What's attractive to you may not be attractive to them (and vice versa).
• (2) I don't look at the ornate chandelier in my church every time I walk in, but I still know it's there. Similarly, folks don't have to gawk at something to know it's there. It's often considered rude.
• (3) Where men specifically are concerned, there are enough rules and regulations "out there" today to deter men from specifically commenting on women in recognition of their beauty/sexiness/etc.

[alice55]

majority of people don't care about others people so they don't look at them some men like to looks at attractive women but theyre generally minority most just don't care and focus on their personal life.

[Asker]

Yeah I’ve notice this people just minding their own business and focusing just in their lives they don’t care at people passing by, maybe I’m the minority but I always aware at my surroundings and also look at people even if they are not attractive just for curiosity just in a subtle way so they don’t notice.

[alice55]

I'm a bit like you, I like watching people to either stare at their clothes their face or just in general, most people are in their bubbles on their phones while I'm just looking at them and my surrounding, it''s pretty interesting it's like that I noticed while a lots of men looks at me majority just don't even glance in anybody directions, not their things.

[alice55]

Even security guard whose job is to literally look at people don't even look at them

[Asker]

Yeah even if they are not in their phones like they are talking with fiends or just focusing on other things, like you said in their own bubble, sometimes I think to myself why I can’t be like this people and just mind 100% my own business lol sometimes a hot girl gets in front of me and I look at men passing by to see if they look at her but most of the majorly they are in their own bubble, maybe the few men who notice are like in their horny days or something lol, like people just look at people only when it’s something or they are wearing something extremely rare or are like 7 foot tall or a deformity, it’s interesting

[Asker]

lol yeah even security guards, like people are living in their own minds, but hey you and I probably are more likely to notice a celebrity passing by or be the first of notice danger or something lol

[alice55]

Well personally I love being how I'm watching people and my surrounding it's very interesting. I love it, I prefer this to being in my bubbles when I was a teen I used to cut myself of the worlds with music but looking back at it, I should have be more careful of my surrounding and not isolate myself I don't think it's so good for mental health.
I think some people just like to look while other don't, I know a man working in a grocery shop who look at me all the time while most others don't even do their job of looking at people, I guess it's a personality kind of things.
Yes, except if someone is like very "weird" or abnormal nobody is gonna give it much attention. Even. style like goth or skinhead which are pretty rare nowadays are not gonna attract much attention.
Yes, for sure, it's good, at least we live the moment and notice lots of things. Can't be a bad things

[Asker]

True

[Anonymous]

It's orbital assault under current laws so don't do it

[exitseven]

We do not gawk at them. I try to not be so obvious.

[Asker]

Yeah I know but I've notice the majority of people are minding their own business and don’t even notice a cute girl passing by, there’s also the beauty is the eye of the beholder factor a pretty girl for me you probably going to find her average at most.

[Asker]

Is in*

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[SueShe]

I wish that was true but unfortunately, women are still sexualized and objectified by desperate males staring, gawking and observing them from the corner of their eyes.

It is unfortunate that we are considered as a sub-species of animals like in a zoo that people steal glances of but don't (yet) touch. This will surely happen in the future that men will want to touch and grab a total stranger just because they can't be in control of their testosterone.

It is sad in the first place to stare at another human being and to be a victim of such glances. If only women could not be seen as objects.

[Nikki1989]

Most people don't take any notice of anyone, period. Most are too busy staring at their phones or have their head too far up in their asses to even care.

[chocolatetwopointo]

maybe bc their whole life doesn't depend on them? people have lives outside of their love life