Why Do the girls find me attractive while men don't?

[Anonymous]

I dislike all sorts of men especially for relationship. I would always hear girls talking to themselves, "She's cute or pretty!" or "Her Pretty Face fits her blouse colors" as they face me and smile at me. I had a group of girls giggling while they stare at me. I feel like a guy or I could surpass for a "pretty boy". Guys never ogle at me. I would have hot guys frown at me. If men think I'm ugly, I hope that they would just ignore or have no problems of looking away from me. I felt so good when this model-looking chick , who is very stunning, staring at me. I think I stole all the pretty girls from men well I didn't mean to. I would prefer to be celibate and never date anyone especially a guy. I had a girl calling me, beautiful. I would enjoy young hot girls staring at me hard or what I am wearing or my hairstyle.

[ouchthathurt]

I don't know, but I guess I'll give you a point of reference.

If a guy were to be exceedingly cute in a feminine way, he could be attractive to other guys, even if they're straight.

However,
- Femininity in guys can be unattractive to girls
- Masculinity in girls can be unattractive to guys

[Maik567]

"Her Pretty Face fits her blouse colors" ... What? Those sound like totally made up compliments but whatever.

Anyway guys and girls find different things attractive in girls. I think guys prefer feminine girls, but other girls might find more unique looking girls pretty/cute.

[Asker]

You are calling me unattractive. That's why I hate men so much not only for frowning toward my ugly face because you are so narrow-minded. I would definitely downvote your answer.

[Maik567]

I really don't care who you hate or dont hate. Just from my experience girls tend to find other girls attractive who are not like traditionally girly, and have something more to their look maybe. Also unique doesn't mean ugly.

[Asker]

I am sorry for being rude to you! Guys tend to be rude to me. I dress pretty sometimes. I feel like I dress more like a tomboy sometimes than like I typical young woman.

[Asker]

I wish I could control my fierce anger. I get out of control all the time. I do have small breasts and not so curvy body. I do not wear make up or earrings. I only wear make up to formal occasions like church and parties

[Maik567]

That's probably the reason then, and you might just subconsciously make negative faces to guys or something cause there seems to be a lot of unsolved issues, and then they might do the same as a response.

It shouldn't be a huge deal anyway if you're into girls.

[Asker]

Well, I chose to stay celibate not into girls, really!

[Maik567]

Well just do whatever works for you and try to keep a positive attitude. Hating 50% of worlds population is not good.

[Asker]

I am sorry if this question is making you uncomfortable. I am confused. I do not think that ogling girls would really be attracted to me.

[Asker]

Thanks, strange thing is that guys who have ignored me end up being friendly to me.

[Maik567]

Why would it make me uncomfortable?

And someone staring at you doesn't necessarily mean they are attracted to you.

[Asker]

You deserve to have the best opinion answer not only for helping me because I want to pay back to you good for being so ugly and rude to you.

[Maik567]

It's fine, dont worry about.

[Asker]

Have a blessed day!

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

why do you care if you don't like men and prefer to be celibate?

[Asker]

I find myself marveled at a girl's beauty more than I would do towards guys. I want to be celibate, but my parents want me to get married and I get the pressure all the time. I had this one guy asking me, "Do you have a boyfriend! You should get one!" Why do people keep telling me to have have a boyfriend and get married and it bothers me a lot. I do have to be in a relationship with a guy if guys are not into me.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

you're 20. i find it hard to believe they care for you to get married at this point... unless you're mormon. just tell them you're gay.

[Asker]

I am not gay. They know that a lot of my aunts are celibate and proud to be single for life. An old friend who is about to 40 never married and is happy. My parents will comprehend this because they often question my reserved, anti-social behavior.

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

ok, then just tell them you're celibate too. what's the problem? and still, why do you care why girls find you "attractive" (more so, pretty) and not guys? like, if you don't give a rip about dudes, then it doesn't matter.

[Intraluminal]

So you're gay?

[Asker]

I am not attracted to girls either. I know that I am too unattractive to be gay, but I would assume that you might be jealous that I accidently make hot girls ogle at me.

[Intraluminal]

No one is so unattractive that they don't deserve love. Why would anyone but you mind if girls ogle you? How can you say you're unattractive if girls find you attractive?

[Asker]

Hahahaha! Ok, I admit that I like it because I do like the attention that girls give me because women are very soft and so gorgeous. I would not marry them, but I does feel good when someone expresses how attractive I am. As long as I do not get catcalls from girls. I received three catcalls from girls especially last year.

[Intraluminal]

Post your picture.

[Asker]

I do not look good, sorry! I am not photogenic at all. I would rather forget about this matter anyway because I should not let a guy's opinion hurt me or put me down. I realize that internal beauty is more important than internal beauty.

[ArtDent]

Lol coo-coo