The guy I like said he doesn't like blondes and im blonde 😕 he said he's into brunettes do you guys think I should dye my hair brown 😭?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

First it’s hair, next it’s body, style, personality, face, etc etc. Once you start trying to fashion yourself to fit what someone else wants, it’s never going to stop, so why start? If he doesn’t like you for who you are as a person right now then it’ll never work no matter how much you try to change.

[Asker]

I only considered changing myself for a moment but I realized it probably wasn't the right decision I think you're right thanks🤝

[HollyK21]

You’re making the right choice👍

[Chazmatazz269]

If you want to be brunette, dye your hair. Don’t do it just because a guy made some sideways comment.
If he’s a genuine dude and he likes you, your hair color definitely isn’t going to be the deal breaker. Most likely, if he’s interested at all, he’s testing to see how easily manipulated you are. That’s abusive relationships 101 stuff right there.
F*ck that guy. Don’t just stay away. Warn your friends and family about him.

[Asker]

thanks for the advice I appreciate your concern I don't think he meant it that way but I'll definitely keep it in mind.

[ChicoFromThe305]

No, I know it seems like an easy solution but this is the gateway into changing who you are for someone, it beats the whole purpose of being with someone if you can't be yourself around them, it's best if he's going to accept you, to accept you the way you are.

[Nikki1989]

No, that would be batshit bonkers. Never do things like that for anyone.

[abc3643]

No.
In a relationship, you want to be yourself. You don't want to be an actor and be something you aren't. Acting is work. Relationships are tough enough but you should have to pretend to be something you aren't to keep your partner.

[abc3643]

* but you should NOT have to pretend to be something you aren't to keep your partner.

[Asker]

I agree I only thought about it for a moment but then I realized it wouldn't be fair to change myself just because of someone elses preference thanks for the advice

[jahaims]

Yeah definitely change who you are so someone will like you. That makes so much sense

[canamlusciouslad73]

He isn't into blondes?(Particularly buxom blondes.) Is he a REAL boy?/

[imemma12]

no maybe he said that just to let you down easy and you need to move on and forget him

[leviopperman]

screw that loser