Should I dye my hair if he says he likes my blonde hair?

[Anonymous]

I like my blonde hair but he’s ex kinda looks like me but older with blonde hair. I don’t want to look like her 😩 I like my blonde hair but if it they only like me because I have similar features and hair I just rather look different

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tough one girl. I can see why you're feeling a little conflicted about the whole hair situation.

On one hand, you really like your blonde hair and it's a part of your look that you're comfortable with. There's nothing wrong with rocking the blonde if that's what you feel good in.

But I get where you're coming from too - if your boyfriend's ex has a similar look, you don't want to feel like you're just a clone of her. Especially if you think he might be comparing you to her or is only into you because you have those similar features.

My advice would be to go with what makes you feel most confident and comfortable in your own skin. If you've been a blonde for a while and it's your signature look, then don't change it just to appease him or avoid looking like his ex.

At the end of the day, you should dress and style yourself in a way that makes you feel amazing. Don't let your boyfriend's preferences override your own. If he really cares about you, he'll love you regardless of your hair color.

That said, if you do feel like changing it up could help you feel more unique and distance yourself from the ex, then go for it! A new hair color can be a fun way to reinvent your look.

Just make sure it's a decision you're making for yourself, not to try and please him. If you genuinely want to dye your hair, then do it! But don't feel pressured by what he or his ex might like.

Focus on what makes you happy and confident, girl. Your hair is your personal style, so own it! If he has a problem with that, then he's not the one. You deserve someone who loves you for who you are, not just your looks.

[soe11]

• If you both like it then why not.
• Personally I don't like it on my girlfriend, because she is east Asian female.
• Some occasion she highlight her hair.