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Heya! Hope you girls can help me!
M30, never dated. I`ve been picked up by girls before, usually when i was drunk enough.
But i never cared to date or ask any woman out.
Been casually talking to a female gas station employee. She is in her late twenties.
She`s VERY pretty. Like stunningly pretty. She told me that she LOVES motorcycles (i ride one) and through a heap of random things, she found out my firstname and kept on calling me by it.
I asked her for hers, she blushed and gave me her name.
The day after, i casually asked if she has a helmet. She exploded with joy saying she would find a way to get one. As i am not expirienced in dating AT ALL, i forgot to ask her for her number.
Thought about it a bunch and it took me a few days, but i finally suggested swapping Numbers.
She lit up and immediatly wrote her number down. (My phone was in the repair shop at the time.)
Haven't called her yet cuz im afraid of comming across as a creep or being annoying.
Current status is that we want to go on a ride, i found a helmet for her.
Before, she told me that she won't be available on 8th and 9th. So i didn`t call her for that reason.
Should i wait for tomorrow afternoon and just send her a text saying that its me and i got a route planned out?
Im still not sure if she just wants to go on a ride or fancys me back.
Her coworker was in yesterday with a different clerk and when talking,
she jokingly said that "he only has eyes for her" ... Would that suggest that she and the girl i fancy talked about me? Same coworker of hers told me and her to go for a cigarette, she can take over service for a bit.
Put yourself in that cute girls shoes and give me your opinion!
Im really lost at how i should continue.
Would you put yourself on a random guys bike just for the thrill?
Or would there have to be some interest for it to happen?
Should i tell her on a riding break that i think she's REALLY pretty?
Just risk it?
Plx help, im lost lol!
I`ll see on Tuesday. I`ll make sure she knows that i like her beyond casualitys.
What Girls Said
Given the fact that she LOVES motorcycles, my first impression is that she wants a ride rather than a long lasting relationship.
She gave you her phone number but apparently was not too disturbed that you did not give yours in return. That would lead me to believe that the person owning the number is not quite as important as the ride itself.
It seems that both of you are on the shy side and if you want something to happen, you will have to make a move otherwise, you may find yourself missing out on something.
My opinion is that she is more into the bike than the biker.
Appreciate the reply, thanks!
I will be frank with her (We ride Tuesday) and see how it goes.
If it works, it works. If not, i learned stuff.
you need to plan things through. That shows u are a guy. Not texting her or calling her shows your lack of interest and sincerity. Now that it has been a while she might think u aren’t serious even if u did reach out to her. You have crossed the time limit. What makes her stunning? How do u both look
I texted her a few minutes after writing this, she immediatly responded.
I planned the route way beforehand, but too few Characters on here so i had to take that part out.
Scenic mountain road, about 3 hours ride, with a amazing restaurant and a natural river to cool down at.
What makes her stunning?
Beautifull black hair all the way down her back, a georgeous smile and she has tatts.
Im pretty average if i would have to guess.
Bald (by choice) with a good beard, 5`11 but that should be okay, she's tiny.
I was flirted with on many occasions, so i guess im not the ugliest dude around lol
Wdym she’s tiny?
Oh... TINY as in size wise. She weighs 45kg and is like 155cm
And you? Are u sure your both physically compatible
Dude, you are 31 freaking years old.
Sorry that i "chose" to have a physical illness that kept me from going outside and expiriencing what others could in my formitive years.
Way to go kicking someone thats already down and trying to improve.