Would you date a man who already has kids, and do you have kids too?

[mothefriendly]

How old are you and do you have any children of your own?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I already have 2 and while that is my ideal max number of kids, sure, I would date a guy with kids with certain conditions. For example, he would need to be an attentive father to them. Not just has kids with some/multiple women but never pays attention to the kids.

He would also hopefully not have too many. I think 2 from him and 2 from me is plenty. Anymore than that and I think it would be too many kids for me to handle. I also wouldn't want to just take over responsibility for care of his children just because im a woman. He better be an equal partner in caring for them or id be done with him.

[Masie]

I'm 19. I don't have kids or have any interest in relationships at the moment. I would not date a man with kids. I don't want that sort of baggage to deal with. I want someone to start a life with clean, not with a previous one.

That may rattle some people but I have my choices and priorities. I have had no lack of suitors even though I am not interested. I will be one day.

[Anonymous]

No. I have kids myself but no I wouldn’t date a man who has kids unless he had those kids on his own like if he adopted them as a single father or used a surrogate.

[mothefriendly]

Interesting. So your main concern would be the ex?

[lilBigPotato]

I do not want kids at the current stage of my life.

[Anonymous]

Never.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn’t.