Would you date with a guy who has 4 babies and 2 baby mamas?

[Darine123]

I’m 19, recently start dating with guy who’s 37 years old. He’s really nice. Know how to take care of a women. Respectful. Is that a red flag or anything?

[KrisKris81]

Yes - ask questions. Pursuing a legitimate rationship with someone so much younger is a little suspicious. Does he provide support to those other women? How long did they date before becoming pregnant? How long did they stay together following the pregnancies? Is he involved in their lives? Were the pregnancies intentional? How old are those women? How old are the children?

I don't want to make assumptions about the guy, but that situation has a lot of history that should be approached cautiously.

[Anonymous]

It can be indicative of him being unable to hold or maintain a relationship. But that's an assumption at best. There could have been other circumstances that lead to that that aren't his fault or were beyond his control.

My suggestion is simply to be mindful of the possibilities, but don't necessarily let speculation impede what might otherwise be a good relationship for you two. Trust your gut.

[jvnxs]

Red Flag girl. You're 19 and he's 37 to start off. It's a really big age gap, so that's something to take into consideration. The fact that he has had two failed relationships (getting 2 babies from each) would imply he's actually not good at keeping up a relationship. Taking these things into consideration, it's a hard pass for me luv. Stay safe girl.

[musicbrain5]

LOL, absolutely not. He "knows how to take care of a woman" and is respectful, but yet he clearly couldn't even keep the first woman in his life and left her to be a single mom. Then did it to another woman. LMAO

[AydenHazor]

Red flag number one is he is twice your age. Knowing that he's got 4 kids by 2 women, it would seem he hold up with toner girls and probably ditches them as the get older. I would say steer clear

[KittyKat90210]

Nope. It doesn't seem right to me that he's had kids with 2 different women and didn't stay with either one

[Soapwithsoap]

Well I guess he'll take care of you, you are about to become mom, congratulations.. and than he'll move on another one.

[Sixgunsound]

Excess baby mama's is asking for trouble. He knew how to take care of them too until he lost interest.

[JustiReno]

You gonna get left in Thailand with your kid while he’s in America this is EXACTLY what will happen with this guy BET

[bigrook]

Only if you're prepared to become the third baby mana.

[Pudsmucker]

I would say it's a red flag. Why is he had two women and still not with the first or the second?
What will he do for you make you the third woman and two more babies?

[Fireguy17]

giant red flag, you don't want to be the third baby mama.

[Guardian45]

Personally, my advice would be to steer clear of this guy! NEXT!

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I see no red flag. Go ahead and keep dating, but watch out for any similarities of him and Bluebeard, the murderer of all his wives, except one.

[KrakenAttackin]

What could go wrong here. Pretty soon you will "accidentally" get pregnant with Chad's fifth baby in effort to hold on to him.

[Anonymous]

If he already has two baby mommas that is definitely a red flag.

[LazerBean]

Not a chance at all, ever.

[EmmaMary]

Not a fucking hope in hells chance.

[desidoll]

Ughhh a total deal-breaker for me. Nope.

[anon1903]

Walking red flag

[Chad345]

Sounds fine to me. Where's the red flag?

[TacosRAwesome]

Nope and I'm technically in that area code.

[Alex8736]

is he looking for baby#5? 😇

[Darine123]

Prolly yes😬😂

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆obvious troll.