Why do some white men praise dark-skinned Black women but only date light-skinned ones?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's like dipping a toe into the chocolate pool. You don't just jump in head first. Maybe they figure dating a a light skinned black girl is like dating a really tanned white girl.🤷‍♂️

Like when i was young i would have never dated a black girl, let alone a dark skin black girl. But i was also born in a state that was 95% white. Dating is hard enough without adding race factors. It's just one more thing that separates us, be it outward appearance or culture.

I wouldn't take it personal (i know, hard not to). But it isn't your shade. It's their unfamiliarity to it. Humans, especially YOUNG humans choose what's familar to them. Even if it's not the best thing for them.

[Asker]

I meant dating app ai grammar mess up my question

[AgentG111]

Um can I ask a few more follow up and clarification questions to your question?

[Asker]

Yes ofc

[Asker]

Ask away!

[Asker]

Ai grammar mess up my question

[Asker]

What I meant to ask is why some white guys say they like dark or chocolate girls but talk to lighter skinned girls who are opposite?

[AgentG111]

Just because they talk with others doesn't mean they don't like them could possibly be they have something more in common or those other ladies actually engaged with them on their level and that's whom they decide to talk with.

[Asker]

Thanks I have no idea

[AgentG111]

Best wishes to you and your relationship.

[Pretendingtobesweet]

They are just saying because they feel sorry

[Asker]

Oh i have no idea

[Pterodon]

What are you talking about. My girlfriend is the color of milk chocolate if not a little darker

[Asker]

I’m talking about white guys who say they love dark skin black women the color of chocolate but swipe or show interest in a black girl doja cat skin tone

[Anonymous]

Systemic racism?

[Asker]

I really don’t know but it’s annoying tho

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry you have to go through that

[Asker]

It’s okay it’s not ur fault

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck. Hope you find a white guy who’s into you.

[Asker]

Thank you

[dudeinohio]

I've dated mostly dark skinned women.

[MasterKS]

because the white skin is better.

[Anonymous]

What is your evidence for any of that?

[Asker]

I’m talking about on dating apps

[Asker]

Also ai grammar mess up my question