Need honest advice on my crush and our Instagram chats—what now?

[Vaasu_77]

I had a crush on my jee batchmate and she is in my nearby clg and I have been texting her on insta. And I really love her because after my tution farewell I literally cried for 3 nights lonely due to thinking that I lost the opportunity to speak up with her and after getting some motivation I started talking to her and now I am stuck what to do next and how well it was going...


I need some help from girls who can understand and tell me what I and her were doing and what should I avoid with her based on chats...

[Nikki1989]

Crush, Instagram chats?

Sorry, I know you are still a child being a male at 18, but still!!!

[Vaasu_77]

Then where should I , I don't have her number, I mean I can take it from WhatsApp group but I think that's not a good way

[blshbnz]

What do you guys talk about? Just talk to her and once you feel confident enough tell her how you feel. Me personally I like a man who is honest and is not afraid to express their feelings to me.

[Iron_Man]

First of all have you seen this person in person? Do you have her cell phone number And where did you meet her

[MrChinaski]

Ask her out. It's been working well for 10,000 years so far.

[Anonymous]

We'd need all your chats to see. Just talk about things she is interested in.

[Vaasu_77]

12 AUG, 19:42
* You: Heyy, how have you been? by the way, we were in the same batch and somehow never actually talked 😂

12 AUG, 21:45
* Her: Hii. I'm good.. wbu?
[Translation: Hi. I'm good.. what about you?]
* You: I'm good too 😊 Just realized we were in the same batch for so long and somehow never actually talked 😂 How's your new college going?

13 AUG, 14:40
* Her: Yes we never talked.. *-CSE is going nice.. it's interesting.. Tune kaha liya admission?
[Translation: Yes we never talked.. *-CSE is going nice.. it's interesting.. Where did you take admission?]
* You: Haan yaar 😂 same batch hoke bhi kabhi baat hi nahi hui. Maine * me MnC liya he. Abhi tak toh interesting lag raha he 😂
[Translation: Yeah man 😂 even after being in the same batch, we never spoke. I took MnC at *. It feels interesting so far 😂]

13 AUG, 20:11
* Her: Ohh nicee
* You: Yeah, I'm enjoying it so far. by the way, what made you choose *-CSE? 👀

13 AUG, 22:15
* Her: Umm tere sare chats Ai generated lag rhe hai😂
[Translation: Umm all your chats look AI generated 😂]
* You: 😂
* You: Thodi English mere ese he he
[Translation: My English is just a bit like that]
* You: Har koi yahi bolta he ai se dur rahe
[Translation: Everyone says to stay away from AI]
* Her: Eng galat hogi toh chalega par Ai nhi😂
[Translation: Bad English is fine but not AI 😂]
* You: Ohk. I admit my English is not much good.😂
* Her: Par baat eng mein hi kyu karni hai
[Translation: But why do we have to talk in English anyway]
* Her: Hindi and guj work equally
[Translation: Hindi and Gujarati work equally well]
* Her: 🙂
* You: Well, I am trying to impove my English
* Her: Ohkk then Carry on..

[Vaasu_77]

I cannot send full chat her due to charcter limit

[Vaasu_77]

13 AUG, 22:15 (Continued)
* You: Well, Tune bataye nahi ki tune *-CSE kyu liya?
[Translation: Well, you didn't tell me why you chose *-CSE?]
* Her: Kyuki mujhe * mein Civil mil rha tha aur * mein biotech jo maine carelessly bhar diya tha pref form mein 🙃.. so out of these 3 i got most interested in CSE
[Translation: Because I was getting Civil at * and biotech at *, which I filled out carelessly in the preference form 🙃.. so out of these 3 i got most interested in CSE]
* Her: Basic coding seekhi thodi toh that was also fun aur subjects of CSE were more interesting than civil etc
[Translation: Learned a little bit of basic coding so that was also fun, and the subjects of CSE were more interesting than civil etc]
* You: Ohh. Konsi wali seekhi thi?
[Translation: Ohh. Which one did you learn?]
* Her: C, C++

14 AUG, 11:00
* You: Insane 🔥🔥🔥. Pehle baar me hi tough language seekh li. Toh abhi toh cp phodne ki tayari cha rahe hoge
[Translation: Insane 🔥🔥🔥. You learned a tough language on the very first try. So right now you must be getting ready to absolutely crush competitive programming]
* You: *chal
[Translation: *going on]

14 AUG, 18:12
* Her: C toh theek hi hai hard nhi hai Python etc sab baaki hi hai..
[Translation: C is fine, it's not hard. Python etc. are all still left..]
* Her: Tune kaha se seekhi hai
[Translation: Where did you learn it from]
* You: Me python sikh raha hu apna college se
[Translation: I'm learning python from Apna College]
* You: Aur cp ka kya, you have great advantage if you are interested

[Vaasu_77]

15 AUG, 00:08
* Her: Haan abhi woh start toh karna hai abhi tak kiya nahi hai
[Translation: Yeah I have to start that right now, haven't done it yet]
* Her: Kaisa lagta hai explanation
[Translation: How do you find the explanation]
* Her: * mein bhi python start ho gya
[Translation: Python has started at * too]
* You: Waise toh abhi tak acha tha, but loops karte time laga ki thode aur projects karwane chahiye the. Abhi dhund raha hu
[Translation: Honestly it was good until now, but while doing loops I felt they should have made us do a few more projects. Currently looking for some]

15 AUG, 08:14
* Her: Nicee
* Her: Khudse toh karna hi padega extra toh hi kuchh hoga😭🙃
[Translation: You have to do extra stuff on your own anyway, only then something will happen 😭🙃]
* You: Haan exactly college basics kara dega, baaki khud ko he karna padega🙃
[Translation: Yeah exactly, college will take care of the basics, the rest we have to do ourselves 🙃]

16 AUG, 10:56
* You: Tu itne confidence se bol rahi thi “C toh hard nahi hai” toh mujhe bhi thoda bata itna confidence kaise aaya. Mene kal hi c start kiya
[Translation: You were saying with so much confidence that “C is not hard”, so tell me a bit about how you got that much confidence. I just started C yesterday]
* Her: Dekh hard nhi bolungi kyuki practice se ho jayega ek baar samaj liya toh samajne mein prob nhi aayi isliye..
[Translation: Look I won't call it hard because it happens with practice. Once you understand it, there's no problem understanding it, that's why..]
* Her: Concepts toh mere bhi ek 2 weak hai but i can't complaint because i haven't practiced them enough.
[Translation: Even I have 1 or 2 weak concepts but I can't complain because I haven't practiced them enough.]
* Her: Terse toh ho jayega aaram se
[Translation: You will manage it easily]
* Her: Koi prob nhi aayegi terko ek baar mein ho jayega
[Translation: You won't have any problem, you'll get it in one go]

[Vaasu_77]

16 AUG, 10:56 (Continued)
* You: Haan ye toh hai, practice karte karte ho hi jayega. Bas tujhe kabhi kabhi C ke doubts puch lunga.
[Translation: Yeah that's true, it will happen with continuous practice. I'll just ask you my C doubts sometimes.]
* Her: 🤣😭🙏
* Her: Terko merse better hi aa jayega bhai 🙏🤣
[Translation: Brother, you will end up getting it better than me 🙏🤣]
* You: Haha wo dekh lenge😂, abhi itna confidence rakhna sahi nahi he🤣🤣
[Translation: Haha we will see about that 😂, it's not right to have this much confidence right now 🤣🤣]
* You: Cuz competition kafi he, mane dhand se c chalu bhi nahi ki aur mujhe ek competitor mil gaye 😭. Kya hoga mera😂
[Translation: Cuz competition is heavy, I haven't even started C properly and I already found a competitor 😭. What will happen to me 😂]
* Her: Chup kar yr🙏🙏 mai toh kya hi bolu isme🙃🙃
[Translation: Shut up man 🙏 what can I even say to this 🙃🙃]

16 AUG, 12:56
* You: Accha accha 🤝 tujhe itna tang nahi karunga... abhi ke liye 😭😭...🤣
[Translation: Okay okay 🤝 I won't trouble you this much... for now 😭😭...🤣]

16 AUG, 16:57
* Her: 😂👍

16 AUG, 21:32
* You: Is weekend pe officially Master of Carrom 🧎‍♂️ban gaya freshers mein 😂
[Translation: This weekend I officially became the Master of Carrom 🧎‍♂️ in freshers 😂]

17 AUG, 19:41
* Her: Nicee

18 AUG, 10:28
* You: Bas Nicee 😂 , lagta hai tu zyada padhai oriented he
[Translation: Just Nicee 😂 , looks like you are way too studies-oriented]

[Vaasu_77]

WED, 17:46 (Wednesday, 19 Aug)
* Her: Aisa toh nai hai bilkul🙃
[Translation: It's nothing like that at all 🙃]
* Her: Nice hi bolungi na aur kya bolu
[Translation: I'll say nice only, what else should I say]
* Her: 🫠
* You: Haan Haan. Itna defensive mat ban tu
[Translation: Yeah yeah. Don't get so defensive]
* You: Waise clg ka timetable allow karta he kuch hobbies karne ko?
[Translation: By the way, does the college timetable allow you to do some hobbies?]
* Her: Haan haan bohot kuchh Harek cheez ka club hai yaha dance, fashion, music, art, programming, tech
[Translation: Yeah yeah, a lot. There is a club for every single thing here—dance, fashion, music, art, programming, tech]
* Her: Sabka
[Translation: Everything]
* Her: Aur kuchh na kuchh events hote hi rehte hain
[Translation: And some event or the other keeps happening all the time]
* Her: Aur 2 sir jo hain data science aur programming ke woh dono mast padhate hain
[Translation: And the 2 professors for data science and programming teach brilliantly]
* Her: Data science , programming aur calculus ke sivay sab tp subjects chal rhe hain
[Translation: Except for data science, programming, and calculus, all other subjects are just timepass]
* Her: Ohk sorry
* Her: 🙃
* You: Mera toh programming aur tech se he mann bhar jaata.😂😂
[Translation: My mind would get exhausted just with programming and tech. 😂😂]
* You: Itne sare clubs he toh confusion nahi hota?
[Translation: With so many clubs, don't you get confused?]
* Her: Nhi matlab mai iss sem toh shayad join nahi karungi clubs next sem se shayad programming ka karungi
[Translation: No, I mean, I probably won't join clubs this semester. From next semester, maybe the programming one]
* Her: Iss sem shayad fashion ka karungi fir sem khatam hone tak aa jayegi thodi programming🙃
[Translation: This semester, maybe I'll do fashion, then by the time the semester ends, I'll know a little bit of programming 🙃]

[Vaasu_77]

WED, 19:11
* You: Fashion wale club se dhoka kar rahe he tu🫥🫠..😂
[Translation: You are betraying the fashion club 🫥🫠..😂]

WED, 20:48
* Her: Ek saath dono hote ho toh kar lungi aisa😂
[Translation: If both happen together, I'll do it like that 😂]

[Vaasu_77]

WED, 22:02
* You: Agar dono sath me ho jae to tu kisko priority dage?🤔
[Translation: If both happen together, who will you give priority to? 🤔]
* Her: Programming ko hi🙃kaam toh wahi aayega..
[Translation: Programming only 🙃 that's what will be useful in the end..]
* You: Acha toh fashion wala club toh sirf timepass ke liye tha?😂
[Translation: Ah, so the fashion club was just for timepass? 😂]
* Her: Nahiii😭 fashion is an all time fav🙃 but priorities badal chuki hain🙃
[Translation: Nooo 😭 fashion is an all-time fav 🙃 but priorities have changed 🙃]
* Her: Badalni padegi actually
[Translation: I have to change them, actually]
* Her: 🥲

[Vaasu_77]

SAT, 10:18 (Saturday, 22 Aug)
* You: Arre life mein kuch fun bhi toh hona chahiye😂 sirf programming thodi na karni hai.
[Translation: Oh come on, there should be some fun in life too 😂 you don't have to just do programming.]
* You: Apne shok ki ek chiz toh kar
[Translation: Do at least one thing you love]

* You: Waise mene tere baare me ek chiz notice ke he🤔
[Translation: By the way, I noticed one thing about you 🤔]
* You: Thodi random ho sakte he😂
[Translation: It might be a bit random 😂]

* Her: Han woh toh karungi hi
[Translation: Yeah, I will definitely do that]

[Vaasu_77]

SAT, 17:12
* Her: Kya
[Translation: What]

YESTERDAY, 08:38 (Sunday, 23 Aug)
* You: Tu mujhe thodi quiet type ki lagti thi, but tu toh chhupi rustom nikli 😂
[Translation: You used to seem like a quiet type to me, but you turned out to be a dark horse 😂]

YESTERDAY, 12:15
* Her: Toh mai aise quiet hi hu merko pasand nhi hai zyada baat karna naye logho se🙂
[Translation: Well, I am quiet like that, I don't really like talking to new people 🙂]
* You: Ohh, Toh chupi rustom nahi, selective talker he tu🍿😂
[Translation: Ohh, so not a dark horse, you are a selective talker 🍿😂]

26 AUG, 13:48
* You: Since tujhe fashion mein itna interest hai, usme bhi jaldi ghul-mil jaati hai ya usme bhi time lagta hai?
[Translation: Since you're so into fashion, do you mix in easily over there, or does

[Vaasu_77]

This is the end so far

[Alex-Snow]

Maybe try doing some video chat with her? DM me if u want to talk about it

[Anonymous]

How old are u both

[Vaasu_77]

18M and 18F

[Opinion Owner]

Why u love her

[Vaasu_77]

I don't know how it happened but I am in love with her

[fishbone77]

ask her out.