If you have dated a person you think is a loser, what was a moment you had while you were with that that made you think "what did I get myself into"?

[Anonymous]

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Meaning you thought they were a loser after starting to date them

[Anonymous]

I didn't realize I was dating a loser until the end of the second month. Truth is... you don't actually know someone until at least the second or third month of dating. Often times, people are madly in love so they overlook red flags. I know I did.

[Asker]

Can I ask what were some of the red flags were?

[Opinion Owner]

there were so many red flags, it would take me hours to write every single one.
But what I can tell you is... if you feel something is wrong with a person... trust it. Your intuition is always right.
Try to not overlook their flaws too many times because these flaws will be the reason why you will eventually break up

[Nikki1989]

I have dated a loser. I just dated one dude that couldn't hold a conversation about anything.

[Nikki1989]

*never

[Anonymous]

haven't dated a loser