#2 How would you feel if you were told thats why your significant other was drawn to you?
#3 How would you feel if they left you and got with someone just like you (especially in looks)?
Yes 2 girls that I recall , the one looked like Pamela Anderson’s younger sister , she walked in with her friends at a house party I was at , the second I saw her , I was making my way over to her lol , I didn’t tell her she looked like Pamela until after I got with her lol She was like yea I get that a lot lol The second girl I met at an Aerosmith concert , She came on to me the second she saw me and introduced herself to me and we instantly started making out , she looked just like Jennifer Love Hewitt , I didn’t say a word, stupid me lost her number , But we made out the whole concert pretty much I still kick myself in the ass for losing her number lol I also dated girls’ that confessed to me why they were attracted to me in the first place , I apparently resemble some celebrities, the most common one I got for a very long time ever since I was a young kid., is John Cusack, I heard that a bunch of times. I also had a girl tell me I looked like Russel Crowe , and I also had a girl tell me I looked like Scott Weiland the singer for Stone Temple Pilots , but the weirdest one I ever heard from a girl , was that I resembled her Dad , she showed me a picture of her Dad and I almost fell over , I was like WTF!!! You want to fuck your Dad !! That one creeped me out because I did fuck her before she confessed that to me. I was creeped out picturing what she was thinking when we were having sex lol She also wanted me to meet her Dad , and I said that’s probably not a good idea, unless you want to creep your Dad out lol I never met him but from all the pictures she showed me he was pretty much my twin lol
u # 1 - "you remind me of my ex, so..."
hell no... lmao, I don't think this approach would be healthy at all, sure... there might be SOME similarities for some things and if these were good or great things you will like them on both, but you like those things because they are great, not because one reminds you of the other but the weird part is THAT being the reason why you are with someone "because of my ex"
# 2 - "I'm with you because you remind me of my ex"
we would need to have a talk about it... precisely to find out about which of the situations is present, the one I mentioned above, the previous point... if she is with me because she was a copy of her ex... or if she is with me, because I am me
the thing is, if she initially got into me because I am like her ex... she is going to quickly find out that I am actually not like her ex, so... her feelings might change too
# 3 - "they left you for Nathan 2.0"
if someone were to leave me, then I guess it is just that... lol, I would just move on and not care much but I can't really tell how I'd feel since it has not happened before
but we've joked about it before, especially when I was younger... "if you're going to be with someone else make sure that guy is BETTER than me, or at least as good... don't leave me for an idiot" lol...
I’ve rejected someone because they looked too much like my ex, lol. He was very attractive, but it freaked me out.
2. I wouldn’t like it, would feel insecure, & probably break up.
3. I think I’d be a little freaked, but block them. I rejected a friend before and he found some chick from another state that looked exactly like me, but bigger boobs and emo/goth/punkish. When he put her on his profile all of our friends messaged me asking why I dyed my hair and changed my screen name. It was a little creepy then and I think id be weirded out if my ex did that.
Yes... My ex was a scorpio.
I have dated 2 since and the similarities were crazy.
But they said I made them feel like I was ticking off a personality checklist.
So that makes me a weirdo not over their ex. Now I'm with an aries again I'm seeing similarities to the other aries but I'm not vocalising so much
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When I was younger I would form attraction clusters, if one guy I liked was European, my next few crushes would be European. If Asian, the next few interests would be Asian. If Semitic, the next few crushes would be Semitic. Etc…
1 - Not me
2 - I'd find that hilarious. If I meet her I can say "I'm you, but better. 2.0"
3 - That would suck. I'd look at my personality traits, habits, what could have gone better. She excelled at something that I didn't and if it's not the looks... I can work on that. For the NEXT guy, that is.
I have not.
I don’t think I’d feel any sort of way to the situation and if I magically got dumped just because he wanted to date someone exactly like me, I’d probably be confused more than upset.
No, gross. If anything I'd probably not date someone because they reminded me of an ex. The other questions don't apply. I don't hang or talk to exes to give any damns about what they are up to or thinking. Like 0 fucks. I don't ever get hung up or think about people not in my life.
Yeah maybe not my girlfriend but my crush I have. I don’t think I was ever told but I do feel maybe that’s why the girl was attracted to me. I guess I wouldn’t be mad but I hope they probably had something I didn’t have or the don’t have I have.
No. I have been attracted to women because they were similar to an ex though.
2. I know women are NEVER drawn to me for who I am. Would I like hearing that from her? No. But I never like any of the other reasons, money, height, she's recovering from a breakup, I could go on...
3.🤣 NO ONE looks like me! Good luck with that. If she did I would simply ask, WHY? She didn't choose me for my looks, that I promise you.
No. Exes have big red flags attached and anyone who was similar would inherit the flag
In terms of looks yeah, but that will be because I like particular body types not because they similar.
#1 Not at all.. At least not consciously..
#2 I mean if that's how it started off, and then she just ended up liking me, that's fine.. LOL..
#3 That would mean that they weren't over me, which would be flattering NGL..
I saw a blonde when I was in college that reminded me of a girl I dated the year before. I guess looking back that is why I wanted to go out with her in the first place.
No. I think because I was attracted to how they behaved/reacted to given situations vs how they looked.
There’s a story to tell behind this! I know a man that actually was doing this and ended up telling them all that he was dreaming.. he told this one woman that his wife ain’t nobody in his past including her. Hurted her feelings to the core
With me it's more I have a very obvious type of woman I desire... so they all have similiar looks if that makes sense in a non creeper way lmao!
m nope
no one deserve such treatment
if they told me that I would consider being with em, its selfish n low
Nope. I tend to avoid girls similar to the ones I've broken up with. A guy only needs so much crazy...
My best friend fucked my Twin brother a couple times until she realized he was not me in any way. It made her more sad. Then that made me sad.
No thank god. Once i broke up i purposefully avoided women that reminded me of an ex.
No. That would actually be a turnoff. I wouldn't want to be reminded of an ex every time I look at the new person.
I think everyone has... if a woman every told me that... I would make sure.. I hit it hard that she limps the next day LMAO.
#1 Nope
#2
#3 it happened, I just assumed he has a type
No I've never gone with someone who was like an ex. I don't make the same mistakes twice
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