Would you ever reject somebody based on their looks?

[Anonymous]

I once said no to think guy after he asked for my number. The only reason why I said no is because he doesn’t have a good looking face in my opinion.

I don’t feel interested in having a relationship with men who aren’t physically attractive to me.

Both looks and personality matter to me in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, yes, I think looks can matter when it comes to attraction. I wouldn’t reject someone because they don’t look like a model, but if I genuinely don’t feel any physical attraction, I wouldn’t want to give them my number just because I feel bad saying no.

That doesn’t make the person unattractive in some universal way. It just means they aren’t my type. I think it’s kinder to be honest than to give someone false hope.

[Anonymous]

Of course. I wouldn’t be mean about it. I’ve actually rejected some women because of that. It’s a preference. A person shouldn’t be shamed for it or made to feel bad if that’s not what they’re looking for. I’ve heard a number of women call men fat phobic for not w sting to date a fat woman or even a single mom. Now if he’s talking shit about fat women or single moms, that’s different.

[lilBigPotato]

Of course. Looks aren't everyone of course but still need to find someone attractive for dating or more.

[Nikki1989]

It would have to be something extreme for me to reject anyone for that reason alone.

[HighValue]

I've turned plenty of people down based on their looks. Usually it is because she has tattoos or a nose ring.

[Alex-Snow]

Personality and character matter most to me but we can't ignore physical attraction. If there is no physical attraction or sexual chemistry a relationship and sex would be a big challenge

[NathanDavis]

nope... I don't go by looks

personality though... yes

[Still-alive]

that may as well be the #1 reason to get rejected.

[queenofcardio]

Yes. You can't force attraction

[es20490446e]

Looks tell a story.

[Anonymous]

Yes. That is normal.

[Abbycado]

Absolutely