Have you ever rejected someone for their physical appearance?

[Anonymous]

Yes, multiple times

It wasn't the sole reason, but it played a role in it

No

[OlderAndWiser]

Depends on how you define rejection. I have only once had a female ask me for a date and she was MR and very unattractive. I told her I was already dating someone else. I have had females in my sphere of friends and acquaintancs who I never seriously considered dating because of their appearance.

[Gloree]

what is MR?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Gloree Mentally retarded, or mental retardation

[Anonymous]

For physical appearance alone? No.

I think I've only "rejected" two girls. One was special education (and not high functioning) - there's no way it would work on any level. But I was kind about how I said no; that we wouldn't be a good fit... and then years later a girl who was wasted (Her friend stopped me while they were on the way to the bathroom and asked if "I'd totally do her." I was kind, but the friend treated it like the worst insult to the friend, then told her friend that I was lying and "I'd totally do her." (I don't think the friend cared; I think she was just trying not to barf) just when I walked away. Poor girl needed a good puke, some food, and about 10 hours to sober up. Not an ego stroke right then.

[Anonymous]

Yes. It was not the only reason but in general I reject overweight guys when their weight is related to a lack of self care. No workout, eating take out only. Because I do not want to be with someone who doesn't take care if himself.

I do not date men shorter than me because in my past experiences they have complained a lot about my height and I ended feeling insecure about myself.

[Asker]

How tall are you?

[Opinion Owner]

5'8'

[DaySpring]

Those a beliefs not facts. The guy could play in the NFL on the line for all you know.

[Opinion Owner]

@DaySpring damn just read what I wrote.

[Pinay_ako]

I just don’t feel attraction towards them. It’s not always the physical looks. It’s maybe their personality or just something about them. Just not attracted at all

[coachTanthony]

All the time. If I am not attracted to their physical appearance then bam... rejection is coming.

[TenderFantasy]

I've rejected men who stunk, either in breath or Body Odor (have they NEVER heard of soap and water before? Lol), who were very overweight, who DOMINATED conversations and didn't listen to things I said or cared to know more about me. Who was dumb or inconsiderate, etc. I have that right.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I don't usually reject for that reason alone. But if she turns out to be an abusive psycho, a heartless criminal case, a scammer, a robot, a cheater, or a closet bi with a lengthy history of being unreliable, I get out of there fast, even if she looks good!

Thankfully, only three have tried to come back years later to start trouble all over again. Only one of them has tried to scam me, the other two simply being stalkerish.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Twice and I feel terrible, because I didn't do it in a nice way. I straight up told them they were too ugly and even made fun of them a little.
Mind you, this was in highschool and I was a little shit. I wouldn't do that as an adult. After highschool I would've fucked anything that moved anyway.

[Lliam]

A few times women came on to me and I didn't respond because I wasn't attracted to their looks.
I dated with the goal of getting into an exclusive, infatuated relationship. So I wouldn't consider dating a woman unless I first found her physically attractive. There is no point.

[razelove]

Of course. I've tried getting with someone I wasn't attracted to twice before. Both times were train wrecks. It doesn't matter how much of a warm fuzzy feeling they give if they can't get my dick hard. That means they should have stayed as friends, and trying to push for more just hurt them more, and wasted my time.

I mean, why would you force yourself to have sex with someone you aren't attracted to, or expect that to work out over a long period of time?

[zagor]

Yes, but most of the time it was ignoring obvious signs of interest and thinly veiled hints. Only a couple times have I rejected someone directly, and one was partly because I knew I was too drunk to, uh, function as a man would be expected to...

[Gloree]

yeah. I don't like short guys. also I don't like fat guys. I don't like super tall guys either.

[Asker]

How short is too short? Like 5'6 and under? Is too tall over 6'4 for you?

[Gloree]

Too short is give 5'0. too tall is 6'3 and above.

[Ben487]

I only care about physical appearance when it comes to dates/lovers. In an employment situation or if I was hiring someone to fix my roof or computer or in regular social activities no I wouldn't really care about appearance.

[Anonymous]

The only guy who ever confessed his feelings to me is my boyfriend. I've noticed when guy's have been interested, but I was never interested back and they never told me about their feelings, so it doesn't matter.

[kobeni]

Romance and sex are a part of love to me. If I am repulsed by you or cannot enjoy sex with you, I cannot date you. It's that simple.

[Pegases]

Physical attraction is a prequalifier for me, and most men. In that way, men being visual creatures is true.

[midnightmoon05]

Sure and they have rejected me for the same reason.

[HighValue]

Yes, many times, but I have rejected them more often because of her morals.

[Counterclocking]

All the time. If a woman’s not physically attractive, I’m not attracted to her at all. No exceptions.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Yes, I'm not going to date someone I don't find visually appealing

[LiamJHayden]

Yes. I don't care about her height, skin color, eye color, bust size, etc., but I do care if she's obese.

[Freyke]

Twice. One was pretty overweight and was obnoxious in class, and the other was a creep.

[Vegasrunner]

Yes, I don't like fat women so I reject them.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah, if I’m not attracted to them it just doesn’t work