Girls, have you honestly rejected a guy because of his looks?

[Anonymous]

I don't blame girls if they reject a guy based on his looks because honestly girls aren't obligated to date a guy they don't find attractive or don't have feelings for. A lot of guys continue to complain that all girls are shallow because they only go for the attractive guys and reject the ugly ones. Guys fail to understand that when girls reject guys, there's nothing personal against them it's just girls have preferences and care about physical attraction like guys but unfortunately if a girl rejects a guy that she didn't find attractive then she's perceived as shallow when in reality she had preferences like any human would have and that guy just happened to not be attractive to her. There's nothing wrong with rejecting people you're not attracted right? I know that sounds kinda shallow and hurtful to them but the fact is that you have to be at least physically attracted to the guy you like because looks still play an important role in relationships; if there's a connection but no physical attraction then it's only a friendship and if there's only physical attraction and no connection then it's considered lust. Being a guy myself, I can tell you that guys are WAY more shallow than girls. Of course it's only human for guys and girls to care about looks because we want to be with the most attractive person we can find but guys place more emphasis on looks whereas girls care to a certain extent and place more emphasis on a guy's character or personality. Girls want a guy that's genuinely nice, caring and has a great personality whole still being physically attractive.

[katty126]

If you are talking about if a stranger approached you and asked you out, and a girl didn't find them attractive, then yes of course. We would reject them. The less we know someone, the more we judge them purely based on looks. However, once we get to know you more, looks have less and less to do with it. Yes, most girls care about appearance, and all girls are different, however as a rule of thumb, looks matter much less to girls than guys.

As the saying goes:

Guys measure girls as : ( looks ) x (smarts+personality) = value
so if looks are zero, then the rest doesn't matter

Girls measure guys as: looks + smarts + personality + money = value

so if you're bad looking, then you still have a chance to make up for it with other things.

[Bleh-___-]

Not directly because of his looks but because I don't feel that kind of attraction towards him, which appearance can be a part of. But I never think "I won't date him because he has a crooked nose". It's more of "I won't date him because I don't feel anything more than friendship with him". I've liked guys who were considered unattractive before

[Anonymous]

I think in the end, we're all human and we usually do have preferences but sometimes there comes a point when many of us either have been rejected too many times or are just desperate for love in general that we would fish for anyone nice really. There are also girls who honestly don't even care about the looks which is awesome and all but in general, I feel like most of us DO care at a certain point for looks because there's no true love in a relationship when one partner isn't physically attracted by the other. Imagine if you both wanted kids..

[Maypai]

Not necessarily rejected, but I have distanced myself from guys based off their looks or if I liked them before I knew what they looked like (such as meeting someone online) then I would stop getting close with them. It is wrong to do and I do feel bad for it, but if you don't find them attractive what can you do. :/

[bellaf666]

Yes I have and I've been rejected by the same reason too. It sucks but that's just how things work, it's hypocritical and makes no sense to judge people for that.

[ShaeNielson]

Of course I have rejected a guy because I wasn't attracted to him, that's natural. Men reject women, too, if they aren't attracted to her.

[writing_essays]

I've rejected guys I don't know over their looks but not a guy that I know well if I like his personality.

[Girlgirlgkgyoff]

My 5 criteria
1. Kind eyes
2. Melting smile
3. We are always laughing
4. He is selfless
5. We understand each other

[morgan27]

Yes, why would I settle for someone I am not attracted to? Thats not fair to either person.

[cis100]

i've rejected guys because of their looks. im not saying it's right but if i agree with you that physical attraction is important in relationships too

[ouzaki]

I never did, I rejected them because they either had too much confidence or not enough

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course. He could be too tall, too short, have horrible teeth, a dreadful haircut, look unclean, smell sweaty, etc.

[morgan27]

Too tall? No such thing!😂

[Pilulu]

I've never rejected a guy before anyway.

[cupidkisses]

yeah many times