If you are talking about if a stranger approached you and asked you out, and a girl didn't find them attractive, then yes of course. We would reject them. The less we know someone, the more we judge them purely based on looks. However, once we get to know you more, looks have less and less to do with it. Yes, most girls care about appearance, and all girls are different, however as a rule of thumb, looks matter much less to girls than guys.
As the saying goes:
Guys measure girls as : ( looks ) x (smarts+personality) = value
so if looks are zero, then the rest doesn't matter
Girls measure guys as: looks + smarts + personality + money = value
so if you're bad looking, then you still have a chance to make up for it with other things.
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Not directly because of his looks but because I don't feel that kind of attraction towards him, which appearance can be a part of. But I never think "I won't date him because he has a crooked nose". It's more of "I won't date him because I don't feel anything more than friendship with him". I've liked guys who were considered unattractive before
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I think in the end, we're all human and we usually do have preferences but sometimes there comes a point when many of us either have been rejected too many times or are just desperate for love in general that we would fish for anyone nice really. There are also girls who honestly don't even care about the looks which is awesome and all but in general, I feel like most of us DO care at a certain point for looks because there's no true love in a relationship when one partner isn't physically attracted by the other. Imagine if you both wanted kids..
Not necessarily rejected, but I have distanced myself from guys based off their looks or if I liked them before I knew what they looked like (such as meeting someone online) then I would stop getting close with them. It is wrong to do and I do feel bad for it, but if you don't find them attractive what can you do. :/
Yes I have and I've been rejected by the same reason too. It sucks but that's just how things work, it's hypocritical and makes no sense to judge people for that.
Of course I have rejected a guy because I wasn't attracted to him, that's natural. Men reject women, too, if they aren't attracted to her.
I've rejected guys I don't know over their looks but not a guy that I know well if I like his personality.
My 5 criteria
1. Kind eyes
2. Melting smile
3. We are always laughing
4. He is selfless
5. We understand each otherYes, why would I settle for someone I am not attracted to? Thats not fair to either person.
i've rejected guys because of their looks. im not saying it's right but if i agree with you that physical attraction is important in relationships too
I never did, I rejected them because they either had too much confidence or not enough
Yes, of course. He could be too tall, too short, have horrible teeth, a dreadful haircut, look unclean, smell sweaty, etc.
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