Girls, do you avoid dating a guy you consider too handsome?

[flagadajones]

[sage2021]

I know this might sound strange, but back in my dating days, I always got picked up by the best looking guy at the dance club.
Then they would come to my work to pick me up for a lunch date. I would love to show them off 🙂.
My husband was very good looking and probably still is. I couldn't believe it was me he asked to marry him.



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[PinkRose24]

Chill. Beauty is subjective.

[sage2021]

@PinkRose24 why should I have to chill? The question is about handsome guys, period. As in physically handsome. You sound envious because I always ended up with the good looking guys and maybe you didn't.

[PinkRose24]

Or I'm just bringing you back to reality

[curiousaboutthis]

@PinkRose24 I'm stepping in, handsome just means that most feel more attracted toward someone than they do towards others. So people aren't physically, nor subjectively handsome. Handsomeness is just a vote which most are good at assuming the result.

[PinkRose24]

No handsome means you have a symmetrical face and handsome facial features. And the body to match it. Most people are average/ugly.

[curiousaboutthis]

@PinkRose24 Wtf? Didn't you just say that beauty is subjective? And I was just stating my opinion, you don't have to be so brutally straightforward.

[PinkRose24]

@curiousaboutthis Yes what most people think is beautiful is subjective. But I. Reality not everyone is beautiful. Most people are average or ugly.

[curiousaboutthis]

@PinkRose24 The symmetrical face and such simply lead to being subconsciously voted handsome, by the way, I don't get your reply, it is confusing, lol.

[PinkRose24]

@curiousaboutthis I'm saying you have bad taste and are calling it handsome

[curiousaboutthis]

@PinkRose24 how do you know my taste?

[PinkRose24]

@curiousaboutthis I'm talking about the other girl

[curiousaboutthis]

@PinkRose24 How do you know HER taste? lol. Ok I'm done, this is getting tired.

[PinkRose24]

@curiousaboutthis get a life 👋

[curiousaboutthis]

@PinkRose24 I'm a teen, I don't have a life, I'm on break 'til January. You're a 29 yo wasting their time arguing with a 68 and 13 yo about handsomeness. YOU need to wake up and get a life.

[curiousaboutthis]

Sorry, I'm a little harsh.

[PinkRose24]

@curiousaboutthis I'm not 29. I put a random birthday.

[PinkRose24]

You're 68? Wtf

[curiousaboutthis]

@PinkRose24 How old are you then? And I am not 68, Sage is!! I am 13.

[PinkRose24]

@curiousaboutthis go do you're homework then

[PinkRose24]

Your

[curiousaboutthis]

@PinkRose24 I'm on break.

[rienna888]

Honestly I’m dating someone who’s too handsome right now and also chivalrous, kind, sweet, caring and will pay for all the dates. I feel our relationship getting really boring. Like the spark went away after a month of being together… I still love him though. I’m average looking at best. He still tries to message me but we have nothing to talk about. Can somebody help?

[HighValue]

Try a hobby that is new for both of you so you will have new experiences to talk about.

[rienna888]

@HighValue like what hobby, I’m kind of scared to be outside with him. You know how hot people get special treatment? What if he realizes he has the upper hand

[HighValue]

What hobbies do each of you currently enjoy?

[rienna888]

@HighValue umm we just eat and cuddle

[HighValue]

You could try Dungeons & Dragons. Either in person at a local hobby shop, or learn how to play it and use your PC to play online.
Maybe try board games. You could try something cooperative and long term like Gloom Haven, or competitive games with a friend group.
Try Magic the Gathering with each other. They have premade sets on Amazon.
You could take a fun online course to learn to play instruments together.
Go hiking or camping. Ride bikes together.

Does any of that interest you?

[TaureanBull81]

If you're already feeling this way and you know the writing is on the wall 🧱, it's best to be up-front with him with regards to your feelings instead of saying nothing.

Because at the end of the day... your happiness as well as his is important.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

You can have walks with him , face to face brings more topics and words

[rienna888]

Yeah I don’t know what happened the last time we met and that was three days ago. The day before we met, he said he was with cousin and then he didn’t text me that night. And the next day his texting style was different. So I got anxious and then I started saying he met up with a girl. And when we met up I was late. He explained things to me, and then was a bit meaner to me than usual. And then later that night he asked me to describe my most recent ex, I did cuz he asked me. I can tell he got kind of insecure. Well since then through text he gets offended easily and kind of mean to me. I don’t know what to do

[Blackmoonsns]

Sounds like he's being too nice to you and you're not seeing any kind of reaction from other women around him. I guarantee you with other women came up to them started flashing her hair in front of them you'd care then.

[Guy13]

Yes, women think more than twice about settling down with a handsome man especially if he has his dhit together in the other ways. "He'll never commit just to me..."

[Sasha0426]

Should we go for the handsome guy then? I’m confused here 😅

[Guy13]

@Sasha0426 There just as many ugly, hateful, and manipulative SOB (s) and BOB (s)
as there are handsome SOB (s) or BOB (s). Who are the most F-up people on the planet? The beautiful people of Hollywood and Baliwood….
Good times as fragility reigns across all Beings.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t value good looks that much but I will not date a high status guy unless I know he likes me enough to be loyal and not view me as a game.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

His good looks won't stop me from dating him.

[Ms_Facesitter]

No. I never met anyone 'too handsome' to date. I have met too handsome that I can't keep my eyes off him, but never that I wouldn't date him. Believe in yourself and cast out that net.

[Lucy68]

Yes. The reason being is due to me being completely out of their league and not their type when it comes to relationships

[Dinklex3]

No.

If I'm dating you I think you're the most handsome & attractive man there is.

[chilldude33]

aw that's sweet

[Anonymous]

Yes cause I m not attractive enough my face is pretty much average (only old and ugly guys find me pretty) for the attractive guys I think I m just good for one night stand.

[no202920022]

Kind of yes because we feel they would never like us back

[Tina19]

I have always dated too handsome guys so of course i would never avoid an eye candy

[sheikalana]

Of course not. If I'm attracted to him I would date him.

[Anonymous]

Well, what guys consider handsome and what women consider handsome are usually two completely different things.

[grierwrange]

No it’s if he’s really handsome and seems cocky or like a frat bro that’s the type to avoid. The hottest guy at my school is a football player and so sweet but there a attractive guys who are arrogant and douches that girls usually avoid

[thegooglepixelfan]

I didn't like guys that are too good looking and tall guys.

[Sasha0426]

Yes! He needs to go for someone that matches his looks.

[Nattt123]

Depends bc I feel like if his too handsome I will be to intimidated by his looks

[Rachelxx0211]

Maybe I might not be able to get comfortable around him because he is so sexy so I won't be able to be myself

[Labokachulaa]

Nah I wouldn't because I'm an average girl, so I'd just be another notch in his belt.

[Anonymous]

Yes, because they could do better. Why would they want to get with a 4/10 when they could get a 9/10?

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous most guys date down and most women are 4/5's so there's a chance of it working

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but attractive men don't so there's no point in chasing them really lol.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner attractive men date down all the time by either looks or status. Men date down women date up.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner How do you know?

[Vegasrunner]

@OpinionOwner excellent question. Name the occupation of one NBA spouse if you can name one whose occupation brings in more revenue then their spouse then I'll tell you I don't know. If you can't then you have to admit that men typically date down. Deal?

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner No, NBA spouses has nothing to do with this. But I'm not going to take you statement for a fact since you have nothing to back it up for.

[Vegasrunner]

@OpinionOwner OK, name the occupation of the spouse of one MLB, or any professional athletes spouse for that matter. You can take my statement however you want but the fact that you have to intentionally ignore the evidence in front of you validates my point.

[Opinion Owner]

@Vegasrunner Oh, wait you want me to look up NBA players wife's who are ugly?

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner please highlight where I said that.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

No way.

I even married <3 him.

[LittleSally]

No. Why would I?

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm not sure to be honest. Never had the opportunity to think about it.

[4ngelic]

why would i lol

[CA4444]

Nope lol

[CA4444]

Well we may be intimidated and think it would be silly to approach

[flagadajones]

But if a handsome guy stares at you waiting for your green light to approach would you give him a cold shoulder?

[CA4444]

No I wouldn’t

[CoolCatMar1]

Not really ahhah

[Aakash_Hangargi]

The guy in your profile wall is like are you kidding me mini mouse 😂

[CoolCatMar1]

@Aakash_Hangargi what do you mean

[CoolCatMar1]

@Aakash_Hangargi
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You call this guy ugly?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I thought you were saying the guy you are with you isn't that handsome.
Now it makes more sense 😜

[CoolCatMar1]

@Aakash_Hangargi ohhhh heheheh sorry i misunderstood you😂❤️

[Daniella87]

Yes, because women will be all over him and I'm not in the mood to fight 🤣

[Anonymous]

No I run to him!

[trina_x]

is that your excuse?

[melanieeeB]

Nope

[curiousaboutthis]

No way!

[Anonymous]

mmmm... i'm not avoid, i'm runaway 👀

[flagadajones]

This behaviour may explain why many handsome guys are single and totally lost in their love life...

[mrcorc]

Yes of course