Girls, is rejecting a guy always due to him not being physically attractive?

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No sugarcoating be brutally honest, use anon if u want to.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I don't know if you have noticed... but women are like human scanners just looking for reasons to reject a guy. If they say it isn't looks, it could be a million different other reasons. It's like a delicate balance of factors just like when they're shopping for clothes.

We shop for clothes and it's comfort and functionality on our minds along with what's cost-effective, and only some of us concern ourselves with fashion for some sort of social reason. Women are the other hand...

I don't even have to write to explain how complicated it is that clothes analogy basically explains it all. I mean just look at the Bill Gates of the world... he's not getting all that pussy because he's attractive. Sometimes it's just situational... I get most of my chicks from the "taken but looking" market (cheaters). They'll overlook my ugly face and lack of money just because they want more dick without the threat of some guy catching feelings. Not simp-ish enough vs. too simp-ish for instance.

Let them bitches know what they're good for

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This is a pointless question to ask a woman man. You'll never get the answer you're looking for because most women themselves don't even know the answer to this. Women simply do not think like men.

You'll always get that few that will tell you yes, and will even give you a ridiculous answer. Like this one girl on hear once said, "I like avg. Looking men like Chris Hemsworth".🤣 But the reality is most women simply do NOT view attraction as simply as men do. To a woman it's just as emotional to her as physical. This is why women typically are such poor judges of character when it comes to men. Because it doesn't take but a good liar to win a woman over. You want to win women over you need to develop a sixth sense for what they want to hear, and then feed that to them. Thier natural inclinations will have them lapping it up.

jaskin777 · Accepted Answer

No that Is not always the case

It could be

Not feeling safe

It could be something happened and ur afraid to be in a relationship or around men.

It could be nervous asf

Like I will give u an example ok?

Me and this guy we talk ( at the time I was in a relationship and I believe in the no cheating shit ) and he said something even though I knew what he said was the 100 percent truth I denied it and said. i was in a relationship
And at that time I was blind asf. Not knowing I would still like him till this day.

So no not everything is about physical appearance.

wiltingrosepetal · Accepted Answer

I'm currently on tinder and the main reason I swipe left is their appearance. If he's a super buff, attractive guy I swipe left. Because I don't want to date a gym junkie, I want a man I can watch anime with until we fall asleep, someone who films indie projects in his free time, or a gamer who can best me in COD. I just don't get that vibe when I see a guy posting in front of a mirror shirtless.

Otherwise, I reject him if he's a smoker, wants something 'short term' (a hook-up) or has really outdoorsy interests. They just wouldn't fit my lifestyle too much.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

If I reject a guy it’s one of four reasons

1 - I do not trust him and need evidence he will not abuse me before we date

2 - I do not like his personality

3 - I might like him but like somebody else even more

4 - I’m already taken

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

No. I have an attractive “friend” who likes me I think but we are incompatible, he’s immature and I had to reject him nicely.

Account · Answer

No. I have rejected attractive people too.

Nikki_0508 · Answer

not really.. in middle school i had some very attractive guys hitting on me and asking me out. i refused due to personalities. my boyfriend now i met online and began liking him before i ever saw his looks.. got to say that once i did... he is very good looking but had he not been, he would still be the love of my life to this day

AmyHew1tt · Answer

No. If I don't find him attractive, of course I would probably reject him. Everyone deserves a partner who thinks they're hot. Pity dating is not a good thing. But I'd reject a hot guy who was rude to others, full of himself, childish, or disrespectful. Even if he looked like a model. I've met guys before who I thought were nice to look at but knew I could never actually date them because of their emotional immaturity.

petitedollbabee · Answer

I think I’ve only ever rejected one guy because of his physical appearance. But I’ve rejected well over 20 guys because of their personalities or mindsets. Looks isn’t very important to me, looks fade. I can’t tolerate a terrible personality even if you’re the best looking person on the planet.

DizzyDesii · Answer

If i reject someone its usually one of the three reasons— because im not physically attracted to him, he has a hygeine problem, or word on the street is he's a hoe. But i’d never tell a guy that im rejecting him for any of those reasons. Seems a tad rude

clovertheminotaur · Answer

Absolutely not. In fact, looks don't really succeed in getting me to date who I want.

Men that come off as too insincere, insecure, and mean are the ones I turn down (there's more but listing every negative adjective would be a chore). It's okay to be a little unsure about your looks, it's natural. But anything too much will have me backing off.

MadinaHasABensheer · Answer

It’s almost always because I don’t find him attractive either physically or emotionally. You cannot be with somebody you aren’t attracted to. If he looks bad and I’m unable to connect with him I’d reject him.

Amara_09 · Answer

I don’t care about looks. Lol, who even looks at someone and judges them by that? That’s very superficial.

There is no way I can reject a guy just because of looks.

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bobalife · Answer

Nope, I’ve rejected plenty of attractive men in the past lol. It could be other reasons due to his behaviors, poor character, values, etc. Or maybe I’m just scare and don’t wanna get hurt.

OtterMan68 · Answer

If he approaches her in a bar or club and offers to buy her a drink or a dance, and she says no, probably. (Assuming she is there and open to getting hit on and meeting a guy)
If she gets to know him first then rejects him, then probably not.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have NEVER rejected a guy for that reason.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Yup. She cares more about what her friends think and how you look next to her. That and your $$$. Women can be just as shallow as men. They aren't innocent angels corrupted by the evils of men.

Monalisa77 · Answer

Nope, there was 1 interested in me on the app i used and i liked him too but he smoked

smashleyy · Answer

no. more often than not it’s something to do with his character for me

Ashley1993 · Answer

Nope but it can be a reason  Not that he's physically ugly.. not just the girl's type

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No, it could be as simple as incompatible vibes.

laly520 · Answer

nope that would be unfair n childish people r more than just a physical appearance

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Unattractive and/or not of high enough status. The female hive first thinks "what will my friends think" about this guy.

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

No.. Girls fall for overall personality .. looks are important but if other aspects are strong.. girl won't reject

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Nope. Sometimes we don't have anything in common. Different political beliefs.. etc.

sheikalana · Answer

In my case. Yes.

JHAYES317 · Answer

No but maybe they’ll reject him because he’s short

HelpfulWoman · Answer

That's an easy no.

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