Do some guys reject a girl because she’s too good looking?

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Effably · Accepted Answer

Of course among the billions of guys you'll find some who do. But I very much doubt that number is anywhere close to 1%. Probably much lower.

That said, in a similar vein but to me different enough to not count: A lot more guys might reject a good looking girl, well because they're not into her for one, for the other reason that her looks makes them assume she is not compatible with them. And of course this can extend to guys thinking that a highly attractive woman leads a life they wouldn't fit in. She is however, and I stress this, not rejected for her good looks but due to the assumptions they may bring.

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

I never reject a woman because she's too good looking. But I have found that a good looking woman and a woman with a personality that I am attracted to are hard to find in the same woman. I find that very good looking women often lack the personality that I like. I think that maybe it comes from a lifetime of having men chase her without having to do anything to attract them. I think less physically attractive woman often work harder to develop their personalities to attract men.

A very good looking woman who also has a great personality is the rarest of the rare.

LittleSally · Accepted Answer

Yes, but not in the way you'd think.

It's the energy of the person - some men are intimidated by beautiful women because they think they're not good people as 'they never had to develop a personality' or 'are used to always getting what they want and will crush their heart'.

So yes and no at the same time.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

I'm sure reptilians are more common than men who reject women because they are too pretty.

JustMeL120 · Answer

Maybe not reject but definitely don't bother asking them out. I know some beautiful women who have terrible insecurities because no man has ever bothered asking the out by fear that they will be rejected. Some men also reject pretty girls when they have insecurities and want to show off on social media that they rejected a hot girl.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I would think she has some other intentions as it happened with me many times before. They either want something from you like help with homework or something or lead you on to embarrass you among her friends later. It happened to me, she talked with me, went on a date once, and then at a party humiliate me, "saying like how do you think someone like you can even date me?"

I am not extremely attractive or rich as I am still a grad student, so don't make too much money. I know my limitations.

Anonymous · Answer

I think the sweet zone tends to be around you 6.5-8s

Too good looking and they tend to suck in bed and have male orbiters everywhere

Your plane Jane's have had there ego boosted by too many men and generally have an inflated view of themselves. However they the best in bed.

So 6.5-8s that's your safe zone.

msc545 · Answer

Entitlement and hypergamy are two relationship killers. Really attractive women tend to have a lot more of this than average-looking women, and men know it and often don't want the rejection and pain that comes from these things. Really attractive women are also really high risk for most men.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

No but I've known guys that said that because they thought she was high maintenance and that seemed a kinder way to end it. Also, if she thought she was significantly more attractive than she actually was, that'll end it and spare the drama.

horatiohornblower · Answer

While there are probably some who would. It’s much more likely that he is dense. Not realizing he is being asked out. Assuming he otherwise likes her and is single.

molonski2 · Answer

Would only ever happen with a very insecure individual male.

petitedollbabee · Answer

I would imagine so, since some girls reject guys because he’s too good looking.

SirJohn42 · Answer

No im just not into women who are gold diggers.  Or using their looks to get things. Also personality matters. If we dont connect from the start. I will walk away.

exitseven · Answer

Maybe they figure that the only reason she is going out with you is that she lost a bet.

Mangospacho · Answer

Like really really incredibly good looking? Yes, of course, you can only handle so much good-lookingness before your brain becomes mush.

Unit1 · Answer

Rejecting beautiful girls makes exactly as much sense to me as religion.

EpicSnail · Answer

Yes, if they think she's out of their league. I wouldn't call it rejection as much as self-sabotage.

Babygirl_S · Answer

No one rejects beautiful people unless they have a bad personality.

shades777 · Answer

That's ridiculous, he rejects her for the other stuff

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

There's handsome ---holes, that r aiming for Ms. Universe.

Summeroflove · Answer

No. That’s dumb

mommymommymommy · Answer

They usually just assume she's taken

warsevf · Answer

i know some people but i will never

Wise4myage · Answer

I suppose some guys would.

Fuentes · Answer

It can happen lol

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sure it happens, but...

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Hehe

PolkSallad · Answer

Yes...

Iron_Man · Answer

No lol

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some probably do.

SandyKandy · Answer

Yesss

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I seen it happen

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