Why would a guy turn down a very good looking girl?

[Anonymous]

Especially if he was once interested in her.,

[OneViewpoint]

"Good looking" is very subjective.

And if he was interested once upon a time but isn't with her maybe she rejected him. Now she's making an advance but he's had time to think about her and maybe he's decided she's not worth the trouble. Looks ain't everything. Drama queens get unappealing really fast.

[Asker]

Yeah ok sounds exactly right, though I don’t think I’m a drama queen ha, but maybe a divorce with young children isn’t so attractive.

[OneViewpoint]

It may be the the single mom with kids thing, a past rejection, or a combination of the two. Or maybe he just started seeing someone else.

[slatyb]

Likely he got to know more of her personality over time, and decided that they weren't compatible. There are plenty of outwardly attractive women I wouldn't want to date.

[Asker]

Yeah ok makes sense

[Abbycado]

Bad personality, manners, hygiene, stuck up, entitled, shall I go on?

[Asker]

Yep makes sense

[MySunflowerSophia]

Personality could be one thing. Or maybe he isn't single...

[Asker]

Interesting, yeah I’m not sure about the latter, could be.

[spartan55]

Probably because she calls herself 'very good looking'.

[Asker]

Ha, but he’s been the one eye balling me for months

[spartan55]

Yeah, so what? Checking someone out doesn't mean they are interested.

[Stevepro68]

Because sometimes after you meet them they just aren't hot enough to put up with the act.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[hello4433]

Cause he was interested in her "once" and is not anymore

[Asker]

Yeah but makes you wonder why

[CaptainSmartass]

Because either he's gay, or she's ugly...

Simples...

[Asker]

Haha funny I’m wondering about the former now, he is slightly too hip and trendy 🤣

[Anonymous]

Maybe he is already in love with some other girl.

[Asker]

Could be but then why check me out constantly

[Opinion Owner]

He probably likes you too.

[Shiprex]

He gave her a chance before and she turned it down if I get the right idea of the situation. Some guys have self respect and don't want to be second choice.

[WhiteThought]

Yes. Looks aren't always enough to get a guy to take you seriously.

[Anonymous]

If she messed him about maybe

[Asker]

At right yeah could have done I guess…

[dudeinohio]

Possibly a poor personality

[In_Trance]

He doesn't like her

[Asker]

Maybe not now, but he did once

[jahaims]

It takes more than looks