Is it an ego problem if a guy can’t accept a girl not finding him attractive?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Okay rejection can hurt and it’s allowed to hurt no matter who you are. But at the end of the day as much as it may suck to be rejected romantically and/or sexually isn’t to be rejected as a human being. Even if you’re hot not everyone’s going to be into you especially if someone’s loyal who has a significant other at the moment.

If someone is a cunt face about it and you were respectful then she wasn’t worth your time anyways as for me it’s a win for dodging a bullet. But at the end of the day nobody’s entitled to have someone date them people who feel that way usually end up finding out very fast that they aren’t. Some mature some only get worse as they age… that’s another story.

But part of its ego yes absolutely especially if a woman was absolutely respectful about it and he was a asshole. That's telling her as well that she dodged a bullet it makes someone want to choose you less including other people who witness that and maybe they had interest but now that’s gone.

[Anonymous]

It really depends whether the woman led him on. A lot of women lead guys on. And asking a guy to turn off that switch is no different than sweeping a woman off her feet then after she good and interested, dropping her flat on her ass.

Misunderstandings are going to happen. But this is why a person needs to be specific. If not, a guy has every right to be angry afterwards.

It might be ego, but it's not a problem. Or at least not HIS problem.

Guys are taught to be persistent. And even when the woman isn't worth it, once that switch is on, it's on. Same as a woman that has been enamored by a guy. The guy needs to learn that there is no shame in walking away. In fact most the time it's the BEST course of action. This usually comes with age. Guys learn better as the get older what to avoid with women and what women to avoid period. Regardless of what she says or does.

[DishLady]

Guys egos tend to be very fragile as a rule. Think of a raw egg... The ego is the shell that protects the egg bc the guy's feelings and sensibilities are very raw and hiding on the inside. When you talk to a guy, think about how you'd carry a carton of eggs. You're not smashing it into your shopping bag with all the other stuff. You're pampering it and making sure the carton gets home safe.

And just like the carton of eggs, you'll find some guys are mentally "cracked" from their negative pasts while others are there and need to be properly maintained.

Girls are supposed to be "the weaker sex" but we have to be smart and compassionate enough to understand the inner frailty of the outwardly stronger/sturdier sex.

[FreyaRed]

Yep. The more ego the less brain. I just need to mention I don't find black man attractive and it takes just minutes some mentally limited egomaniac calls me racist. lol

[FreyaRed]

@Theodish_Warrior I know. XD

[Asker]

@Theodish_Warrior I wouldn’t say it’s racist unless you make racist comments about them

[HawkPerception]

Definitely an ego issue. Everyone has preferences. If you can't accept or respect someone else's preferences you have an ego issue. No one on the planet is everyone's type.

[ohsheeT]

It's either Ego. Or they don't know who they are.. because a guy that truly knows himself isn't going to allow what anyone says about them effect them

[Zack-Bann]

Define “can’t accept”


If he’s still pushing for a date despite the rejection I would say he’s just desperate and had nothing to lose so he’s swinging for the fences


If he took the rejection but still considers himself good looking I would say it’s part of self love and an understanding that beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[Nikki1989]

A healthy ego understands that attraction is subjective and not a given. An unhealthy ego is often rooted in entitlement.

[OneViewpoint]

It's not ego as much as insecurity and lack of self confidence.

[Asker]

Thanks

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea definitely, people should already be aware that they won't always be everyone's type, even if they are highly liked or wanted

[serious]

I would say yes it is.

[slatyb]

Yes it is.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, definitely.